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Started by Teresa, January 13, 2025, 07:51:57 AM

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Teresa

I recently acknowledged, or at least accepted that I need to explore the possibility, that I am really a woman. I came other to one counsellor who did not know how to handle it. I have been to a couple of sessions with an actual trans counsellor, and that is starting to help.
On the weekend I went to a 55+ trans lunch. I am not sure how I feel about that. I let myself be called Teresa for the first time (other than here and a couple of other online groups). The group got into a bit of a political activist discussion. I am not ready for that at this very early stage of my transition. I was also probably the youngest there, at 61. At least I felt the youngest, maybe because I was also the newest.
I did get some great advice. not least of which was to take my time and accept this will take time.

KathyLauren

That is good that you are meeting other trans people in real life.  Even if they are more activist than you are comfortable with at the moment, it doesn't hurt to hear what they have to say, and to bounce your thoughts off them.  In particular, The advice to take your time is spot-on.
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate

ChrissyRyan

Yes, take time, reflect, learn.
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

tgirlamg

Welcome Aboard Teresa and all good things to you as you find your way forward!... Enjoy every step in the process of becoming... It is all amazing stuff!

Onward Brave Sister!

Ashley 💕
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

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Lori Dee

Welcome Teresa to the Blogosphere!

Your blog will serve as a great place to record your journey and share updates with your readers. This is your home here at Susan's so get settled in and continue to let us know how it is going for you.

Meeting face-to-face with a local group is great. It allows you to understand that you are truly not alone. Our local group's discussions have also turned political because the current climate has many of us concerned about the future. It doesn't hurt to go and just listen to what their concerns are. After a short while, you will get to know the members better and will be able to relax. Maybe someone else will join too and you won't be the newest.  ;D
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Northern Star Girl

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Dear Teresa:

Today, when I logged-in, I was thrilled to see that you have
started your new Blog Thread here on the Forum.

Your readers and followers will now have a place that that they easily can find you
which will allow others to leave their reply comments and thoughts for you.

As LoriDee mentioned in her previous post....
...your Blog Thread is the place that you can call HOME here on
the Forum and where can continue to tell your "story."

THANK YOU
for sharing with all of us.
I am eagerly looking forward to following your story as you feel comfortable sharing.

Warmly,
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Teresa

Quote from: Lori Dee on January 13, 2025, 10:49:11 AM...
Meeting face-to-face with a local group is great. It allows you to understand that you are truly not alone. Our local group's discussions have also turned political because the current climate has many of us concerned about the future. It doesn't hurt to go and just listen to what their concerns are. After a short while, you will get to know the members better and will be able to relax. Maybe someone else will join too and you won't be the newest.  ;D
One of the other ladies wanted to get back into photography, so we did have that in common  ;D