I recently acknowledged, or at least accepted that I need to explore the possibility, that I am really a woman. I came other to one counsellor who did not know how to handle it. I have been to a couple of sessions with an actual trans counsellor, and that is starting to help.
On the weekend I went to a 55+ trans lunch. I am not sure how I feel about that. I let myself be called Teresa for the first time (other than here and a couple of other online groups). The group got into a bit of a political activist discussion. I am not ready for that at this very early stage of my transition. I was also probably the youngest there, at 61. At least I felt the youngest, maybe because I was also the newest.
I did get some great advice. not least of which was to take my time and accept this will take time.