I'll be honest... the way the world is, we shouldn't be advocating for people to have as many kids as possible. They're going to grow up in a nightmare, the way we're ruining the world.
I always will... and I doubt you'd be able to convince me otherwise... be on the side of the parents. To be able to choose. The mother especially. You can do whatever linguistic gymnastics you want but it's her body. I am not a catholic. Condoms are a thing. More doesn't equal better.
To quote Agent Smith:
I'd like to share a revelation I've had during my time here. It came to me when I tried to classify your species. I realized that you're not actually mammals. Every mammal on this planet instinctively develops a natural equilibrium with their surrounding environment, but you humans do not. You move to another area, and you multiply, and you multiply, until every natural resource is consumed. The only way you can survive is to spread to another area. There is another organism on this planet that follows the same pattern. Do you know what it is? A virus. Human beings are a disease, a cancer of this planet. You are a plague, and we are the cure.