Welcome to Susan's Hinoiri from another of the "older" crowd! I began my journey two years ago at age 68 so don't feel like your late to the parade. lol Are you working with a gender therapist? Many of us have found that to be an excellent way to start our journeys and to set our goals and timelines for transition. Remember that as much as we have in common with each other, each of us is unique. My path may not be right for you. Ao, ask questions, look around, jump into conversations. Finding yourself, your voice and your style are all parts of the fun.