Quote from: Nero on January 18, 2008, 05:09:05 AM
We've had the 'Different degrees of transsexualism' debate. So is it possible there are different causes of transsexualism - causes that may explain why:
some feel it and know it from birth and some don't
some seem to be nearly untouched by their birth gender socialization and others seem to never recover from it
That's a good question, and -- obviously -- one which it is very hard to answer, since there's so much we don't know about the cause(s). So, I'm going to keep my options open, but at the moment I see no compelling reason to postulate more than one cause.
Yes, some are certain of it right from the birth, but some are not. On the other hand, there are also reports of people who claim it at a very young age but get over it. It looks like this kind of self-awareness develops roughly about the time puberty starts, so that a teen-ager's idea of eir gender should be correct. Even then, eir ability to talk about it, or even to conceptualise it to emself, is another matter. There's a lot of variation here, and I'm willing to accept that the differences in just when one 'knows' it can be explained by the combination of these two.
There's a lot of difference in how transsexuals get socialised, too. However, also cisgendered people have a very large variance in how far they get socialised with respect to gender roles and expression. I'm quite willing to guess that the variance in transsexuals may be larger than that in the general population, giving the effect you describe: people who attempt to fit in and find their birth-sex socialisation hard to shed, and on the other hand people who act stereotypically like their internal gender right at the start. Still, this can be explained without resorting to different causes for transsexuality, by just accepting that the underlying condition makes people pay more attention to gender expression, which in turn makes them more likely to drift towards either extreme.
Isn't that a long way of saying 'I don't know'?

Nfr