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Started by KelliTGirl, March 30, 2006, 05:26:44 AM

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KelliTGirl

I had a thought, and wanted to share it with you all... perhaps start a thought provoking topic.
Many of us live in a fairly cookie-cutter society; meaning our society is so large we blend in, we become a number, and sometimes alot of us kind of meld into society all to easily.

So, my question:

What makes you uniquely you?

What makes you stand out amongst the sometimes dull and dreary society that we inhabit?
What is special about YOU?
What makes up who you are?
What makes you feel GOOD about who you are?
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madison

What makes me uniquely me?

What makes me feel GOOD about who I am?

It is wonderful to see such a positive thought provoking topic. It is so easy to think about our problems, but so rarely do we simply think about what is good, which might offer better solutions to problems than dwelling on a problem in the first place.

It is also an extremely ponderous thing to consider.

In my case at least, the thing I feel that makes me unique is both what makes me feel good and bad about who I am...my special blend of mind and emotion.

My mind is blessed with the ability for grand conjecture, astounding imagination, and conceiving big picture solutions, connections, and scenarios. My emotions are rich and full, immensely sympathetic, often empathetic, and sincere.

This combination of mind and emotion has enriched my life in countless ways. My ability to find rich and trusting relationships is enhanced, more often liked than disliked. Artistically it is impossible to quantify how this combination of the mental and emotional has empowered me. My mind and emotions have afforded me an incredible amount of flexibility in learning and experiencing new things and circumstances with ease and relative comfort. There is no question that the subtle blend of mind and emotion in my life makes me unique and makes me feel good about myself.

Though it is impossible to make such a claim without also admitting that the same uniqueness that causes great joy in my life, is also at the root of my social phobias, every impetuous action, the ability to rush to judgement, the ability to overreact and overthink, and every moment of sadness I have experienced. The negative results of this uniqueness could have easily swallowed up my ability for good, but thanks to friends, family, certain educators, and a few well timed random strangers, I have always been able to find the strength and fortitude to continue on with hope and vision.

A blessing and a curse; but on the slow path to enlightenment I would not have it any other way. In the end it is my thought and emotion that make me uniquely me, and it is what I can offer to share with all of you.

In the event that you were looking for something more specific, slightly more tangible, I offer this answer: What makes me uniquely me and feel good about myself are my delusions of grandeur and my imagination. No wait, it would be my undying hope for the future. No it would be my hands, I really like my hands. Hmmm, I was trying to turn that into a joke, but somehow, its not happening. So do me a favor and think of something funny and pretend I said it.

Nope, wait, I know what the answer is now. It is the ability to enjoy writing responses to provocative forum posts such as this one.

Find your day well.



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Kimberly

>What makes you uniquely you?
This falls under the same as "What makes up who you are?". There is almost nothing of me that is mundane.

>What makes you stand out amongst the sometimes dull and dreary society that we inhabit?
*shrug* I would suggest asking society this but that may be a touch difficult. :P

In my estimation this would be because I do as I wish with little regard for what is wanted of me by society. Apparently this makes me stand out. *shrug*

>What is special about YOU?
*shrug*
Ask someone who cares about me, not me.

>What makes up who you are?
*chortle*
There is entirely too much to list.

>What makes you feel GOOD about who you are?
The closest positive thing I can think of would be because I think for myself, regardless what is wanted of me.
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rana

Puts me in mind of show "John Safran vs God"  is Australian so probably people from North America would not know what I am on about :(

The buddist koan (if I spelt it right)   "Who am I"

Cannot be described by words

being metaphysical here, or is it zen

rana :)
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Chaunte

Quote from: Kelli on March 30, 2006, 05:26:44 AM

What makes you uniquely you?

What makes you stand out amongst the sometimes dull and dreary society that we inhabit?
What is special about YOU?
What makes up who you are?
What makes you feel GOOD about who you are?

What makes me stand out?
In the education world of crew-cuts, shirts and ties, I stand out in my tie-dyed labcoat & ponytail.  (Only one of my stndents has ever noticed that i wear women's loafers, but that's another story.)

What is special?
As I teach science, I include history, politics and economics.  A couple of my students are starting to see that these areas really ARE the same subject - The Human Experience, simply taught from a different perspective.

What makes me feel good?
When a student finally makes the connection.  Call it a Lightbulb or Eureka! Moment, if you will.
When a student gets excited with me over science and the strange, wondorous beauty of the universe.
When people come in and talk because they need someone to listen to them, and they feel safe with me. 

Chaunte
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Dennis

QuoteWhat makes you uniquely you?
What makes you stand out amongst the sometimes dull and dreary society that we inhabit?
What is special about YOU?
What makes up who you are?
What makes you feel GOOD about who you are?

I guess what makes me me is that I have a unique constellation of abilities and disabilities.

What makes me stand out? There ain't nobody quite like me. There just ain't. Every time I figure I've got blending in down pat, something makes it obvious to me I'm different.

What makes up who I am? I think my values more than anything. My somewhat reckless disregard for my own personal safety (yes, I shouldn't smoke or ski off cliffs). My weird sense of humour, which hopefully doesn't cross people's boundaries. My singing, my odd logic, my complete lack of ability to stick to any resolution. I just am what I yam.

What makes me feel good? My first instinct is to help, even if it does badly hinder my financial prospects. Unfortunately I spend a ridiculous amount of time that should be billable giving people help for free. But on the other hand, I am a good lawyer. I do a good job for my clients, even if sometimes they can't see it. I think I'm a good role model for different people, having transitioned out in the open. I have good and worthy people who love me (and who I love back). I am a willing slave to my cat.

And, I think, above all, I like me, and that sets a good example for other people who are different.

Dennis
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slinky

What makes you uniquely you?
The thing that makes me, is my personality, my attitude and wit... I'm classed as a stereotypical looking gay person, always dressed in mens clothes but uniquely questioned by people in their minds... IS IT OR ISN'T IT... I love it..

What makes you stand out amongst the sometimes dull and dreary society that we inhabit?
Never fear Slinky is always here to put a smile on someones face be it they are sad, bored, lonely. i will always try to make people think about the good in life...

What is special about YOU?
I am ME.....

What makes up who you are?
My life as a whole makes up who i am..

What makes you feel GOOD about who you are?
There's only one person who at this moment in time is making me feel GOOD about who i am and that is my SO...(Russ)..
LOVE YOU.. :-*
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