I think that he is taking the higher road. While I can not condone abortion, I do understand that there are cases which can or should not be avoided. That decision should be between a patient and her doctor. It is not my choice or that of my government to make. I agree with Obama. The best way to prevent abortion is to work at the other end of the problem. We need to educate our children. We need to have active pregnancy prevention programs. We need better support and medical care for pregnant teens. And finally, we need be prepared to support those children that are born. Pro life people need to be more active in adopting children.... especially minorities and those born with birth defects. Young mothers need help with securing employment, getting to work, childcare, and other help so that they can become contributing members of our society. This all requires much more attention than either side of the argument is willing to take on and there's the rub. It costs money and resources. Additionally, many fundamentalists will not agree to sex education.
On the "civil unions" argument..... let's give all marriages, households, unions... any group of people who live together for whatever reason the opportunity to register with the government as a civil household with all the same rights and legal responsibilities by filing with the government. I would strongly favor getting government out of the marriage business. I'd like to see a law passed which universally replaces the word "marriage" with civil household (or whatever you want to call it) in all of our laws and tax codes.
I knew two men who were disabled many years ago. They were both disabled but were able to take care of each other. The man in the wheel chair could drive and prepare meals because he had full use of his arms. The fellow who could not use his arms very well would push the other around in his wheel chair. He was also an engineer so he produced the bulk of the income. The two managed quite well together. I have no idea what their sexual proclivities were. It did not matter. Should they not be granted the right to file as a civil household as well? It's not a gay issue. It is a practical one.
Cindi