I will delete accounts for being disparging or intolerant towards individuals, G

[Lucy]

Rebis and Simone, thanks. It seems that most members here are TG or TS, and I was beginning to think I might have goofed in signing up.

Hey, Shades, you're in the right place.

Wing Walker

I came here loking for awnsers and it just made me more confused at first, What Im trying to say is the gender whirl pool is a huge varied place that has no boundries. Shades it doesnt matter where you are in the pool.

[Constance]

Thanks, all, for the clarification and encouragement.

[cindybc]

Hi Shades O'Grey, I believe you will sort it all out for yourself in the end as which (shade) of on the grey scale on gender classification you feel most comfortable with as time goes. Heck I been full time for 8 years post-opp M*F and I still don't really know about all the gender variants there is. If not certain, check them all out. I can't say I haven't had an interesting journey so far both here and the metaphysical side of our lives.

Cindy 

[iFindMeHere]

Just so I know I'm not in the wrong place, an androgyne who is uncertain about if or when he'll transition MtF is welcome here. Right? I mean, I didn't join the wrong board, did I?

If this board is intended for transgendered and transsexual persons and not for folks who are still uncertain, I'll leave quietly.

This was the question I had, too.

Lane

[deviousxen]

My intolerance is only towards those who are intolerant... I guess..

[cindybc]

Hi Deviousxen hon, I had my fingers slapped once and that is enough for me to have learned to stay out of controversial threads. It ain't worth it. Gets me way more upset then I could ever upset someone else anyway. By nature I am not a confrontational person, I am here for the purpose of doing what I can to support anyone in need no mater what label they identify with under the transgender umbrella.

Cindy   

[iFindMeHere]

My intolerance is only towards those who are intolerant... I guess..

i either ignore them or try to reason with them. Soemtimes the second part works... there are those who can adjust their framing and then remove their heads from their.... O HAI EVERYONE!

[Elwood]

Thank you for taking that move, Susan.

[Aiden]

eh, if I ever come off as doing something like that, let me know.  My irish/scottish/german blood can get a bit heated sometimes and I don't always realize how I am reacting to people.

I try not to though. 

Hope haven't done something like that.

[Elwood]

I really am never hateful towards non-trans people... like cross dressers or cisgendered individuals. I tend to hate what people do, not what people are. If I express anger towards someone, it's because of something they did and has nothing to do with their sexuality, gender, race, etc.

[Aiden]

LOL yeh well it's not people's status as transgender or not that ever get upset with, it's people's attitudes I have difficulty with.