Hello Salome,
People here at Susan's are caring people.
We do encourage and help whenever possible.
But we also tell you what we think.
I too have always been the quiet submissive type, but the woman in me is not shy and she loves to talk to people.
I also would love to look young, beautiful and look like Marilyn Monroe but as you can see from my avatar it will never happen. But my real longing is to be the woman I am inside. So set your dreams on the things that are attainable and we will be around to help as much as we can.
There is lots of people here with lots of experience and they are always will to share with you.
As others here have said welcome to Susan's.

Jillieann