I never really dated, but I did have a girlfriend in high school.
I had several partners willing and waiting over the years, but I never took advantage. I had no idea what I was and I did not want a one night stand. So it was either keep them at bay or start a relationship and hope my gender issues did not catch up and send me down the mtf route. As I get to know myself better, I now know that won't happen and am more willing to give a relationship a shot. Unfortunately, that presents a problem. I have so little experience compared to others of my age in terms of sex, relationships, dating, etc.
Posted on: March 30, 2008, 06:29:25 PM
Quote from: Nero on March 30, 2008, 05:36:05 PM
Reebs, you're such an adorable person, I bet there's tons of guys and gals just praying you'll make a move. 
They are, but are not receptive of it.
My experience has been a person like Rebis (and myself) will not be able to meet anyone except by chance, internet or a friend. Unless the other person makes the move.
The men and women want it, but they do not recognize us due to all the players hitting on them, they expect smoothness. We get blown off in a crowd due to inexperience. Unless you play the game and are good at it, you can forget the typical meeting places like clubs, bars, etc...