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Dropping the Bombshell: Responses, round one.

Started by lady amarant, March 30, 2008, 01:48:08 PM

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lady amarant

So, I just got off the phone with my mom and dad. Pretty-much everybody on my mom's side of the family now knows. My mom told them all, save for the more distant family in Namibia and Vrede. The response has left me amazed and grateful beyond words. The worst I got was an "It's his business. Nothing to do with me" from one or two. For the most part though, these are the kind of responses I've gotten:

My gran: "Ons sal soos tierwyfies baklei as iemand ons kind wil seermaak." (We'll fight like tigeresses if somebody tries to hurt our child.)

My Aunt Alice: "O, ek weet DIT. Ek en Rienie het dit al besluit toe hy klein was." (Oh I know THAT. Rienie and I already decided that when he was small.) - YAY! Vaidation!!! Heehee... ;D

Apart from the pronouns, I am stunned. I am utterly floored. My mom's family is Afrikaans, generally conservative, religious, and none too worldly. I am humbled by their responses.

Please, just don't let this bubble burst.  :-\

There is of course still the paternal side of the family... eeek!


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soldierjane

OMG!!! Serious congrats and *hugs*!!!

Your gran rocks btw!
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RebeccaFog

good for you, Simone.


You're in it for the distance now.
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sd

#3
Odds of the entire other side going the other way is slim, and so far I don't think you could ask for better. Even if the other side went all bad (not likely), I would say you came away better than many people have. Congrats!

As for the pronouns, you can't expect them to grasp everything right away.
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Just Mandy

That is so awesome and I'm so happy for you! Congrats!

Amanda


Something sleeps deep within us
hidden and growing until we awaken as ourselves.
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Constance


Kate

Quote from: lady amarant on March 30, 2008, 01:48:08 PM
My gran: "Ons sal soos tierwyfies baklei as iemand ons kind wil seermaak." (We'll fight like tigeresses if somebody tries to hurt our child.)

My Aunt Alice: "O, ek weet DIT. Ek en Rienie het dit al besluit toe hy klein was." (Oh I know THAT. Rienie and I already decided that when he was small.) - YAY! Vaidation!!! Heehee... ;D

That's so cool! I'm so happy for you!

~Kate~
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shanetastic

yay!

That's awesome news!

I'm so glad your family is accepting and understanding.  That's a huge accomplishment. 
trying to live life one day at a time
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Chaunte


Congrats!  Positive validation goes a long way!

Chaunte
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Alyssa M.

Oh, Simone, that's so wonderful! Congratulations for making that big step. You are blessed to have such a loving family.
All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another.

   - Anatole France
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Laura91

That is so cool that your family is so accepting, Simone.
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Nero

totally missed this. this is awesome, sweetie!
Nero was the Forum Admin here at Susan's Place for several years up to the time of his death.
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debbie j

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