Thanks everyone ^^~
My last appointment was Friday. I had the catheter removed and also had the packing removed. Dr. McGinn decided it would be best to repack the vagina since there was some tissue that was trying to heal near the opening (that would have been likely harmed and killed if I started dilating right away). The hematoma pretty much extended the healing time.
Urinating was the next thing. I was unable to with the packing in, and we decided to remove it (again) to see if I could urinate. My body had the ability to urinate, but the swelling was still so bad that I couldn't let out more then a couple tablespoons at a time (and it was quite painful). I gave in eventually and had a catheter put back in.
I dilated for the first time in the office. My depth is quite what I expected with my small frame and I am happy with it. Dr. McGinn repacked the vaginal cavity and restitched it in. It was so tight that it eventually came undone slightly in the following 24 hours. In order to prevent the stitch from pulling apart my skin I had my girlfriend cut it where it crossed the opening. I removed the packing that wouldn't go back in and pushed the remaining amounts in. Currently I am using two ABD pads and two pairs of underwear to prevent it from coming loose. I am seeing Dr. McGinn today for a checkup in a few hours. We plan to dilate, though the catheter and packing is not 100% for sure. It just depends on how much I've healed and how much the swelling has gone down.
On a side note, the nurses at DSI were wonderful. One of them came in on her day off to keep an eye on me. redfish as she is known on this board stopped in and gave me a super cute stuffed animal before she left the hospital~ I am quite happy for all the support I got. Saturday I was kind of freaking out, but things turned out really well in the end, ne?