The trouble with sociology, and psychology - and why they will never be true science - is that there never is, nor ever will be any sort of magic bullet one-stop shopping theory for any of this. That Autogynophilia, gay-in-denial, or forced feminization by parents exists, and in some cases fits all -or at least part - of what is going in is true. That's its true to some degree in some cases (though many others who are those things find totally different routes to pursue them on) does not make it true in all cases. That I don't buy it, and I don't fit into any of the described categories is, I'm sure, also true. For you, in your case and for your life, its does not mean that it never happened (or is not part of what is happening) to others.
Its not the theories that are bad, I'm pretty sure that each might well have a place. Its the use of any one theory to explain all of it in everyone through all time - and that just ain't working.