At the end of forums index page, it shows who's online.
There it says something like registered users and "spiders".
Spiders are people that it's not registered?
Like people "spying" the forum?
It sounds like they are not welcome to the forum.
If that's the reason, how could we expect that they accept us?
They are not welcome to know our reallity?
We're opening our lifes, I think not only us can learn about our stories.
Sites like this can help other people to understand us.
If that's not the reason, forgive me

Please, I wanted to say this in very good terms.
See ya!