what s a woman

[sheila18]

all:
This poll is related to the post under  ... Transsexual talk > Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) > Topic: What is a woman/girl to you, Will you ever be one?
thank you for participating.
Sheila18

[tinkerbell]

none of the above 




tinkerbell

[sheila18]

tinker:
thanks , yet i have to ask what is a woman for you/ and will you ever be one?
My question betrays the unstated premise. do transexuals belive in one type of woman or more?
Sheila


Posted at: July 07, 2006, 01:47:09 AMthe choices are intentionally exagerated, after some time I will reveal why, no big deal.
Choose the closest one to your way of seeing it,
sheila

[stephanie_craxford]

none of the above 

tinkerbell

Ditto.  I am a woman.

Steph

[Chynna]

Whats a woman?
sorta like whats a person!
What a woman is... is what the "on looker" wants her to be...What a woman is to me is  not a given you just don't become a woman by being born female or waking up oneday and suddenly identifying yourself as woman...or having any type of certifiable piece of paper with an "F" marker on it!...After all it's "F" for female not "W" for woman!!!!!!!

To me a woman does not have to state she is a woman
You can just clearly see it in everything that she does from walking to talking to standing still in a crowd. its just blantly obvious that is what she is because the "on looker" cannot see her for anything else but a Woman.
a woman is someone who's actions dictate that is what she is...a woman....is someone who demenor proclaims what she is....A woman can enter a room and suddenly grad every mans attention just by her smile and grace...and grab every other womans attention just by her aurora...
A woman ...a true woman ....earns the justification of such a title simply by living up to her own true nature

A Female is a person having physical attributes of that particular sex (easy one to accomplish)
A woman A true woman ( is much much much more than that)

Chynna

[Kate]

Ditto.  I am a woman.

Hmmm, ya know, if anything I'd suggest that I'm a girl, and not (yet) a woman. That's really how people treat me, despite my male physicality. I don't think I have the class, maturity, or elegance to be considered a "woman." Not yet.

In fact, when my wife attended a therapy session with me, I had to laugh when she said to the therapist, "You don't understand! It's like living with a 16 year old girl!"

I dunno if I should be happy or insulted by that, lol...

And ya know, the sad thing is I'm old enough to know what a "ditto" machine is.

[Kimberly]

I hate to, but I have to chime in with the "none of the above" crowd.
What I am is not based on others, nor is what I will be.
Oh an yea, I do not claim to be a woman, `I'm just a girl`...

[Kate]

Oh an yea, I do not claim to be a woman, `I'm just a girl`...

Artist(Band):Bachelor Girl - I'm Just A Girl Lyrics

I might be a little concerned with my hair
I might need comfort more than my share
I might seem to follow fashion but claim that I don't care
My heart is your best friend when it rules my head

I might want to talk alot but don't ask me why
And I'll get impatient if you don't reply
I might always search for something wrong, I want you to deny
And if you love me just stay close and hold me when i cry

Don't try to understand me, I'm just a girl
One of the greatest mysteries, you'll find in this world
I'm not hard to handle, I'm just a girl
I'm just a girl

I don't seek money but I want your time
Cos I'd give my life for you, when you are mine
And it hurts me more than I can say when you pull away
But if you love me you should tell me everyday

Don't try to understand me, I'm just a girl
One of the greatest mysteries, you'll find in this world
I'm not hard to handle, I'm just a girl

I'm just a girl (x4)

You might think I'm too demanding
But you're just not understanding, no

I might like to take advice, but go my own way
And it's when I hurt the most I swear I'm okay
And it's always when you least expect I say I want to stay
Might take just a single kiss to steal my heart away

Don't try to understand me, I'm just a girl
One of the greatest mysteries, you'll find in this world
You think I'm an x file, I'm just a girl
I'm just a girl

Don't try to understand me, I'm just a girl
One of the greatest mysteries, you'll find in this world
I'm not hard to handle, I'm just a girl

I'm just a girl (x5)

[sheila18]

Miss chynna miss kate:
wonderfull!! I loce the lyrics...

  love sheila

[Kate]

wordds and the intellect are wonderfull but when life shows up the intellects fails to grrasp reality we are left all alone to determine our life solely by our actions

You keep reminding me of:

And what is good, Phaedrus, and what is not good? - need we ask anyone to tell us these things?

-Robert Pirsig, Zen and the art of Motorcycle Maintenance

[Kimberly]

Interesting, I was thinking of No Doubt's "Just A Girl":
("Tragic Kingdom" CD, track 3)

Take this pink ribbon off my eyes
I'm exposed
And it's no big surprise
Don't you think I know
Exactly where I stand
This world is forcing me
To hold your hand
'Cause I'm just a girl, little 'ol me
Don't let me out of your sight
I'm just a girl, all pretty and petite
So don't let me have any rights

Oh...I've had it up to here!
The moment that I step outside
So many reasons
For me to run and hide
I can't do the little things I hold so dear
'Cause it's all those little things
That I fear

'Cause I'm just a girl I'd rather not be
'Cause they won't let me drive
Late at night I'm just a girl,
Guess I'm some kind of freak
'Cause they all sit and stare
With their eyes

I'm just a girl,
Take a good look at me
Just your typical prototype

Oh...I've had it up to here!
Oh...am I making myself clear?
I'm just a girl
I'm just a girl in the world...
That's all that you'll let me be!
I'm just a girl, living in captivity
Your rule of thumb
Makes me worry some

I'm just a girl, what's my destiny?
What I've succumbed to Is making me numb
I'm just a girl, my apologies
What I've become is so burdensome
I'm just a girl, lucky me
Twiddle-dum there's no comparison

Oh...I've had it up to!
Oh...I've had it up to!!
Oh...I've had it up to here!

[sheila18]

closing the poll   and   Results

well it seems that by comparing the traffic with the participation is clear that is enough of this.

With love and admiration, Sheila