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Started by gothique11, July 31, 2008, 01:16:09 PM

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gothique11

So, here's something I didn't expect to have (or realize you get with the package): a g-spot. Not only does it feel really good, but it's physically there. I can feel it, anyway, and it feels a lot like a natal woman's g-spot.

I asked someone in trans group last week about this and they mentioned that only Brassard (who I went to), Meltzer, and maybe someone else in the use (maybe Bowers) actually create one with the prostate some how. We were unsure about Thia docs or other docs in the world. *shrugs* I never heard of that (or I heard different on message boards), but other recent Brassard patients I talked to all claim to be able to feel the location (the structure of it) in the same place as it would be in a natal womans, and it feels good to boot.  (Wheeee!) ;)

Being a lesbian, this is good news for me. :) It feels the same, and if I didn't know I was T I would think it's natal.

So, I was wondering about this -- is it only certain doctors that do this technique or is it pretty common now?


--natalie
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NicholeW.

Brassard is said to be best at that. He was a neuro-surgeon to begin with and has lots of knowledge about "hooking things up." Marci worked with him for awhile so she may well have taken some of the technique.

Got no idea about Melzer. But Suporn is supposed to have a knack for the same thing.

Nichole
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Sheila

I went to Dr Preecha. He told me that the prostate gland has some pretty powerful effects for haveing an orgasm. He told me that it would be like the g-spot in the female. I know that if I get my vibrator in the right spot, which is easy to find, I can have a nice time.
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debisl

I went to Bowers, and I also have a spot that is just wonderful. To say the least it has been used.

Deb
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Blanche

I'm only 28 days post-op! Dr. Bowers is quite known for constructing very sensate vaginas too.  I've got to wait to see for myself, I presume.
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gothique11

I know mine is sensitive. The clit as well, all over, actually... I'm amazed at how well it works. And it feels different than "male" part did -- the sensation is a lot more and a lot better -- and the orgasms are really, really, really, really good.

Also, I think part of it is that I'm comfy with the right part. I haven't been with anyone yet (just myself for the moment) but I'm happy with my vagina. I'm excited at the prospect of having a relationship and finally getting to enjoy the intimacy part. I've been in plenty of relationships, but because I had the wrong parts intimacy would get awkward. In a couple of my relationships with bi-girls, I ended up feeling like I had to use my parts. If I didn't, often my partner would feel left out because I could pleasure her to know end, but she couldn't do it to the same extent. Of course, we did a lot of other things besides intercourse, but a woman does want to return as well as receive.

I had one lesbian relationship where my partner didn't want to touch/see that part down there -- that made me very, very happy, actually. I took a lot of pressure off. But then, again, as a few months gone by we ran into the same road block. She wanted to give back, but at the same time didn't like penises at all and I didn't want to use it. Eventually, we broke up (not just because of the intimacy, but for other reasons, too... but intimacy was part of it).

So, I think part of the reason -- besides the masterful work Brassard done, because the feelings aren't just all in my head -- is that finally I have the correct part. And, believe me, I've been excited for when I do go back into a relationship that I'm going to enjoy an aspect of it that I haven't really been able to before. I'm very happy about that.

The G-spot is a bonus. I actually ran out of my room and told my roommate (another lesbian) that I have a g-spot. I was uber excited when I realized that I could feel it. I totally wasn't expecting it and wasn't expecting everything to look so damn good down there! Much of the swelling is gone and I have no pain down there. Everything seems to work fine. It's great. I know that there's still some healing probably going on because it can take upto 4 months for swelling to completely go away and up to a year for all of the nerves to heal. So, if it's this good now, I wonder what it's going to be like a few months from now, or a year?

I was one of the lucky ones when I was in Montreal. Although I had tons of pain and was allergic to the pain killers, I had almost no bruising or swelling. I had two small bruises, about the size of a quarter. Others I know had much more bruising and swelling. I was very surprised I didn't get much, and I was healing really well. The pain, again, sucked and I seemed to have more pain than everyone else at the start -- but then I was healing fast, almost now swelling, and no bruising.

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kirakero

To my understanding, the prostate doesn't really get moved or messed with too much during surgery.  The prostate is the same thing you can feel a few inches up into the rectum when you press against the forward wall.  Unless it is specifically removed, I imagine most MtF patients will have one.  My scope of knowledge is limited to the penile inversion with dorsal nerve sparring technique, not Suporn or other variations.

I had a lesbian girlfriend, we ran into the aforementioned problem as well, however I didn't mind my male genitals too much as long as my partner respected me as a girl.  She was absolutely selfish in the end, and sex was not adequate in general besides that.
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Sandy

I went to Dr. Christine McGinn, and I can tell you that I got mine!!!

-Sandy(works just fine <smile>...)
Out of the darkness, into the light.
Following my bliss.
I am complete...
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gothique11

*shurgs* I don't feel anything if I stuck anything up my butt, and even from within the vaginal canel, if I press down towards the rectum -- nothing. Nothing at all, I get no sensation other than regular pressure. The G-spot I'm feeling is where it is on a natal woman, on the top, not the bottom, of the vaginal canal, about 1-2 inches inside where the turn starts to happen. I can also feel the rough texture of it.

I never knew that they did that, and my most recent ex went to montreal but had her's with the other guy -- the old dude, I forget his name. And she doesn't have it, infact, her vagina even looks different. She looked at mine when I came back noticed that even the stitching was different than mine. We broke up a couple week after, sadly, but that was because when I was gone she cheated on me and relapsed into hardcore drug addiction (something I can't be around).

So, long story short, Brassard is doing something different/new. I've had a few friends who've had surgery this year with Brassard and they have the same story.

another thing I noticed is that orgasms aren't much of a prob with the couple of friends I've talked to as well as self-lubing (although, still a good idea use lube). As well as cuming. I don't know where it comes from, and maybe it's the build up of stuff, but yeah, I can produce goo.

I know with people who've gone to the other guy in Montreal (he doesn't really do much now, mostly retired) that there is a difference. And another person I know who went to old dude says her g-spot is where the prostate is, and doesn't have the same spot as I do. Crazy, eh?



Posted on: July 31, 2008, 03:57:49 PM
Quote from: kirakero on July 31, 2008, 02:37:29 PM
I had a lesbian girlfriend, we ran into the aforementioned problem as well, however I didn't mind my male genitals too much as long as my partner respected me as a girl.  She was absolutely selfish in the end, and sex was not adequate in general besides that.

Exactly. It's frustrating and I understand the frustration on both sides. Since going full time I've had 3 girlfriends. The first year I had one for the whole year, and then second I've had two. In between that I've had flings but they don't really count as girlfriends.
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NicholeW.

I'd guess that he shifts the prostate. I imagine that wouldn't take a tremendous amount of time at all. The G-spot, although disputed by some doctors as being an "urban myth," seems from some research to be congruent with a male prostate.

These two articles from Wiki might help some.

1) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Urethral_sponge

2) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G-spot

N~
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kirakero

I haven't actually tried to find my prostate through the rectum since surgery... Hmm o..o  I'm pretty sure I heard it wasn't moved, I wonder if the vaginal cavity is in the way now.  Hmm~~

Dr. McGinn regularly refers to the prostate and g-spot as analogous structures.  Curious again now about its position before/after surgery, I will ask her for clarification when I see her next time.

Back on the girlfriends issue, most of the story is on my blog.  Link in my signatures~
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Northern Jane

My surgery was by Dr. Biber in 1974 and although I didn't have a G-spot I  had good sensitivity and reached orgasm the second time I had sex. Somewhere over the last 10 to 15 years, a G-spot HAS developed and vaginal sensitivity has increased remarkably. If there was a prostrate left after surgery it has long since atrophied and is not detectable by a doctor and doesn't show on MRI or CT scans. It would seem that the body, in the right configuration, regenerates or replaces cells with the appropriate type.
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Beyond

Quote from: kirakero on July 31, 2008, 02:37:29 PM
To my understanding, the prostate doesn't really get moved or messed with too much during surgery.  The prostate is the same thing you can feel a few inches up into the rectum when you press against the forward wall.  Unless it is specifically removed, I imagine most MtF patients will have one.  My scope of knowledge is limited to the penile inversion with dorsal nerve sparring technique, not Suporn or other variations.

Beyond puts her medical cap on....

The prostate is made with tissue that is analogous to the tissue that makes up the natal female G-spot.  Also although the prostate does not move during surgery, just about everthing else does.  As a result the prostate is more forward than you think.  The prostate surrounds the urethra just below the bladder.

Q: Post-op gals where does your urethra emerge, where do you pee from?

A: The urinary opening is in front or anterior to the vagina!


What does that mean?  That means it's located almost exactly where a G-spot in a natal female would be.


That said, just like the general population, their is a wide variety as far as G-spot functionality.  For some it's super sensative and for others less so.  Translation: IMO It doesn't matter who the surgeon is, your prostate/G-spot is sensitive or it isn't.
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Annwyn

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tinkerbell

Prior to surgery, I thought that everyone that believed in a G-spot was indeed insane.  How ambitious of me to make an assumption on something I had no knowledge of, eh? Well, it is true; it exists, and I was totally wrong!  :icon_redface:


tink :icon_chick:

P.S.  I'm a Meltzer's graduate by the way!  ;D
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Satya'sMind

I really think a post-op g-spot is more common than not. Since all of us have a prostate in just about the right spot, and the spongy tissue is there, just like in a cisgender female. I went to Dr. Chettawut in Bangkok exactly a year ago (this time last year I was starting my cleansing routine in preparation for my Aug 4 vaginoplasty surgery). Overall, I find it hard to imagine having more sensation than I have, and my g-spot was key to finding my first post-op orgasm. I think that with any of the competent surgeons currently out there, a g-spot is an expected outcome of vaginoplasty.
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