Packer, Strap-On and STP Questions

[Elwood]

I have a ton of questions. Answer away. 

Do all packers stick on with adhesive?

I have a serious problem with this idea. I don't want anything sticky on that area. Not only because of the hair, but also just because I hate feeling anything sticky on my skin. It makes me feel like I'll convulse, even, being coated in anything (including water). I'd prefer to have a packer that does not stick to me. Packers that are somehow restrained with a strap of some sort is preferable. My current "stuffing it in the fly" method is unreliable and everyday I fear it will fall out. I'm pretty active, which is why my packer requires proper restraint.

Where do you boys get packers?

Online, of course. But could you post every website you know of? I'd really appreciate it.

Where do you boys get STP devices?

Same places? I'm looking for an STP device that is separate from the packer. I don't want to pee through something I sweat on all day.

Any to scale images?

I don't want to order something that is way too big. Adult sized. I know what the proportions should be, and I worry that the balls will be huge or something. So when it comes to getting these, do they come in a variety of sizes? Do the websites generally give all of the dimensions? (length of the phallus, size of the testes, weight, girth, etc.)

How do you guys get strap-ons?

I am not familiar with the sex store world. I am even afraid to step into one. Where do people learn about this sort of thing? Do sex stores even sell quality strap-ons or do they all have leopard print on them? Should I order this sort of thing online?

How do you know a packer/strap-on feels realistic without even being able to really feel it before you buy it?

Do you just take their word for it when they say it's realistic? Do some of the websites you know of have customer reviews of the products?

Is there a way to request the packages are unmarked?

Not that my parents wouldn't find out anyway. I'd just appreciate it if the return address didn't say, "Penises and More" on it.

All of your help is greatly appreciated.

[trapthavok]

Well I can't say I can give these my personal thumbs up but I did a lot of searching when I was looking for my STP so I found a lot of sites you might like.

And no, lol the strap ons aren't all weird dildo looking things, some of them come really realistic.



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[Elwood]

Are dildos also considered strap-ons? I know this is a little weird, but from what I've seen, dildos tend to be rock hard, like they have a lead pipe inside of them. Mind you, I've never touched an erect penis, so I really don't know how hard it gets...

Andrew, that embarrassingly named Cock Sock is the perfect thing I've been looking for.

A quality prosthesis is something I'll have to save up for after I get a job. I only have $300 to work with and I don't want to spend it all on trans stuff (I'm saving up for other stuff too!).

As for feeling realistic, my pants are jeans. I'm wondering if it can feel realistic down to underwear (something relatively sheer in comparison to denim).

Thanks for the abundance in information and the links, guys.

Posted on: August 23, 2008, 09:18:36 PMAlso. When they look erect in photos, does that mean they're stiff? Or is that just how they lay it out for the picture?

[trapthavok]

Are dildos also considered strap-ons? I know this is a little weird, but from what I've seen, dildos tend to be rock hard, like they have a lead pipe inside of them. Mind you, I've never touched an erect penis, so I really don't know how hard it gets...

A lot of dildos can be strap ons if you're looking in the right place. There's usually a "strap on dildo" link when you're looking online. The other dildos, you probably wouldn't be interested in, I don't know. I know I'm not. I want the real looking thing, not some fuzzy purple vibrator. So yeah just click on strap ons and look for what you want.

Hmm I read the mango dildo, and it says the inside is made of the same stuff as the outside, latex. Just harder latex. So I don't think all of them have a lead pipe inside. I think an erect penis is supposed to be able to stay up but its squishy at the same time, not necessarily rock hard. So some dildos try to copy that sensation.

Also. When they look erect in photos, does that mean they're stiff? Or is that just how they lay it out for the picture?

Umm I haven't really checked the other links I gave ya but the mango cybercock looks like it says it doesn't HAVE to stay erect the whole time, you can adjust as necessary. So they just made it look that way for the picture I assume.

[Elwood]

Are dildos also considered strap-ons? I know this is a little weird, but from what I've seen, dildos tend to be rock hard, like they have a lead pipe inside of them. Mind you, I've never touched an erect penis, so I really don't know how hard it gets...

A lot of dildos can be strap ons if you're looking in the right place. There's usually a "strap on dildo" link when you're looking online. The other dildos, you probably wouldn't be interested in, I don't know. I know I'm not. I want the real looking thing, not some fuzzy purple vibrator. So yeah just click on strap ons and look for what you want.

Hmm I read the mango dildo, and it says the inside is made of the same stuff as the outside, latex. Just harder latex. So I don't think all of them have a lead pipe inside. I think an erect penis is supposed to be able to stay up but its squishy at the same time, not necessarily rock hard. So some dildos try to copy that sensation.

Yeah. And I've seen a lot of dildos that don't have testes. Ugh. Like those chrome ones that look like Cylon dicks.

Yeah. I was thinking it wasn't any harder than say, when you've got a swelled foot from a shattered ankle? >_>;; Man, I really need to find a boy who will let me just feel around for learning purposes. But everyone considers it sexual. Maybe I'll find some guy who really wants to be jacked off or something... :/

Posted on: August 23, 2008, 09:27:08 PM

Umm I haven't really checked the other links I gave ya but the mango cybercock looks like it says it doesn't HAVE to stay erect the whole time, you can adjust as necessary. So they just made it look that way for the picture I assume.

They have adjustments? Bloody Hell.  I have a lot to learn.

I'm going to use these links and shop around. Thanks, guys.

Before I can do this, I'm opening a second bank account to use with PayPal. I so don't trust them, so I'll keep really small amounts in that account just in case someone hijacks my PayPal... It may be quite some time before I open another bank account... -sigh- But I told my dad straight up that I'm looking for a packer. I'm actually a little too honest with him, lol. He didn't have any problem with it. He said, "It's probably better than a sock." I was pretty embarrassed, but he couldn't have spoken truer words.

[kestin]

lol, I'm weird... I'd rather have something that didn't look like a penis XD ... maybe something rainbow...

[sneakersjay]

I don't have time right now to answer all your questions but: Play underwear has nice boxer briefs with a pouch you can put your packy in.  No straps, no fear of falling out.  Won't work well for an stp, but an option if you don't have/don't want a harness OR adhesive.

Jay

[JonasCarminis]

i just ordered a pair o play underwear BTW.  i'll let you know how it works.

[Elwood]

Thanks, guys.