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KIDS - reasons you don't have em, reasons you don't want em

Started by Nero, August 15, 2008, 08:03:01 AM

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cindybc

Hi, Janet, I'm truly sorry to hear the restriction imposed on your visits with your children. Has that not been resolved since then? Yeah, I do know about the empty nest syndrome, in my case after my ex left and took the kids with her, after having had a house full of this one's and that one's children in my care. I pretty well always had someones kids or grown ups come to visit during those years I lived in the res. Well you could say I was the reservation babysitter, especially on Bingo Nights.

Even after I moved from the res to live in a city of 125,000 that was more like a large town to some other's standards here, I always had someone living with me apartment, sharing. So anyhow, I always had someones kid in the house and I loved it. I was never one who ever wanted to live alone, I didn't like being alone.

I did finally get to see my children again after moving to their hometown  about ten years ago. I even had my son in my custody for a time. A couple of years later I went full time and had a friend of mine who left her three children in my care for two years. Thanks be to Great Spirit for having given me the pleasure of having an abundance of children under my roof.

Wing Walker and I got hitched 4 years ago, I don't want to ever be alone and if the opportunity did offer itself for taking in a child in my care again I wouldn't blink an eye to the offer. It does appear that my prayers to never having to live alone have been very well granted through the years

Cindy   
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Ciarquin

If I did some day change my mind about having children, I would adopt. I think there are too many people in the world already, especially far too many unloved children without homes for me to be able to bring another life into the world.

I respect everyone's choice to have biological children, this is just my personal feelings on the matter.
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Kate

I don't have any because...

1) I didn't like the idea of being locked into a "father" role

2) At the time I felt children would remove any chance of my ever transitioning (because of #1 really)

Biological children are a moot point now for me, but adoption seems more "me" somehow though anyway. The day will come when Fate brings My Little Boy to me. Don't ask me how I know, but I just DO. I already feel I've met and gone through life with him, I just have yet to open that chapter of our lives.

~Katie Marie~
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Natalie W

I don't have any now because:

1.  I'm an 18 year old unemployed college student.

2.  If I have kids now, I'd play the role of father, whereas I should have the role of mother.

3.  Kids might cause a few more hurdles in the already hard enough process of transition.
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cindybc

Hi Kate hon. I will pray that this will some day be true.

QuoteThe day will come when Fate brings My Little Boy to me. Don't ask me how I know, but I just DO. I already feel I've met and gone through life with him,

My little boy went for a deep sleep 8 years ago, even if I was able to conceive my own child I would be to old to conceive one now. That is not saying I wouldn't still want a child in my care if it is the Great spirits will for me to do so.

Cindy


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