I just wanted to tell everyone that chats here:
Thank you for having so many firm, passionate, and VARIED views of life. Yeah, you'll see me get mad, but still--it makes me feel like we're not a cult of freaks like I was afraid of, but real people going through real life who all have something in common.
Furthermore, Susan, Administrators, Mods, any other official I missed:
I really REALLY appreciate you folks making a place for us. Having a space where there's knowledge and empathy--maybe even friendship--means a lot. No matter how many times I bump up against the rules.

most importantly,

!
Lane