Well I think I would be worried if I got so weak that I couldn't still mow lawns and shovel snow which I was quite capable of doing up till last year and I'm 62. I still go for a walk about every day, well I never kept track of the distance, I guess 5 blocks or so and I won't even slow down or breath heavy.
The difference I noticed is mostly in lifting things and twisting to open different containers like jars, even ripping open cardboard containers, such as soft drink boxes. So I definitely lost strength in my wrists. Less strength, yes, but certainly not weak. I can still keep up at work with other of the girls half my age and less. Me being helpless? Geee I sure hope not. I'm just careful as to where I go. I don't drink or party but my mate and I do like to go out occasionally.
I have a friend who is a TS counselor and I mean, she looks the real thing ya know, and she ain't much bigger then me, well 5'5" in comparison to my 5'3". Well it happens she was about to walk under this highway underpass at night and this big guy comes out kind of in a hurry not watching where he was going and kind of shouldered her aside almost knocking her off her feet. She got ticked and just didn't think at all before acting out and just charged at him like she would have done in her prior life. Well she hit the guy in the side and he backed up a couple paces, regained his balance and stepped towards her again.
My friend just stood there nonplussed not knowing what to do next, not scared, just numb, frozen like a deer in a cars headlights so to speak. This girl came out of no where and grabbed the guy by the arm and said, "your not going to hit a girl now are you?" He looked at her then at my friend and just walked off with the other girl. My friend said to never walk into something like that without some type of follow up in mind.
Moral of the story, I beleive what Tink is saying simply is as our anatomy changes we need to change or adapt accordingly. If you have been several months on HRT, don't take chances unless you have **some type of follow up.**
Cindy