MTF's...Have you ever fallen romantically in love with a male, a female or both?

[cindybc]

For reasons I will not get into here was the result that I was not interested in a relation ship for a good many years. I had no interest in physical sex with either one gender or another and had resigned to live out the rest of my life alone until I discovered I was suffering from GID 12 years ago and began living full time 9 years ago and ended up on Susan's, that was 8 years ago. It was 7 years ago I met a trans girl here on Susan's and one year later I met her in person and the following year after we were married in the province of Ontario and have been living together for the last four years. I am grateful and I thank my higher power I met this lady, or I may very well have been living the rest of my life alone.

Cindy

[debbie j]

Yes Both,

I can see myself waking up to the loving comfort a man offers.
I can also see waking up next to a beautiful sweetheart.

As long as they will love me for who I am.

same here  too as long as they love me for me

[Sephirah]

*smiles*

I fell romantically, head-over-heels in love with a goddess. And every day I fall in love with her all over again.

[Shana A]

both but i'm marrying a man in a few days.

Congratulations Natasha!!!

*smiles*

I fell romantically, head-over-heels in love with a goddess. And every day I fall in love with her all over again.

That's so sweet Leiandra!

I voted both. While I've been w/ people of either gender, multi-genders within the same person is what I find most attractive. 

It's been 12 years this weekend that I moved in w/ my partner, looking forward to the next 12. 

Z

[Janet_Girl]

I am finding the news here very up lifting

*smiles*

I fell romantically, head-over-heels in love with a goddess. And every day I fall in love with her all over again.

Congratulation Leiandra    It is always a great feeling to have someone you love in your life.

both but i'm marrying a man in a few days.

I am so happy for you and your soon to be husband, Natasha    Congrates

I was not sure where to post this so I put it in my Blog, but I think that I should be a link here as well being we are talking about love.  So go to https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,45332.msg296244.html#msg296244 and see what has happened to yours truly.

It isn't even Spring and love is in the air.

[Goldy]

yes only with women, men are yucky!

Unfortunately it's rarely reciprocated.

[cindybc]

Hi Natasha, Just found out about your getting married to some lucky guy back on October 25.
WingWalker and I just wish to say "CONGRATS"   
Cindy

[Victoria L.]

I've had crushes on males, but I've only romantically fallen in love with a female. And we're both in love with each other. 

[tinkerbell]

I have only fallen romantically in love with men!  They're soooo, they're sooooo, they're sooooooo...wonderful *sighs* 

tink

[Jeannette]

Only men for me too!

[cindybc]

Hi Tink, well considering the partner you have I must say you have a good taste in men also.

Cindy

[Karma86]

I've fallen in love with men or even maybe lust... All I know is that i've felt strong connections with men . Usually men from america . I never felt much of a connection with local men here not sure why . But usually when I want a full out romantic relationship they're mind is strickly thinking bout how to get a '' piece of ass '' . For me I have alot of self respect so I don't feel giving myself to their sexual temptation would be worth my time or theirs . Maybe i'll find him maybe not but I do know I am going to be a mother one day !

[postoplesbian]

I had to first love myself

There was never any chance of loving another until i loved me

There was also never a chance of being fully loved for me

Until i was myself

Now i love me

So naturally i seek another like me

Be they male or female

They must love themselves

only then can they love me

So No i have never loved or been loved by anyone as i wait patiently for the spirits above to send me a true love

[tekla]

Love tends to be acquired by hard work, not the graces dropping people on you.  As in most things, fortune favors the bold.

[postoplesbian]

Love tends to be acquired by hard work, not the graces dropping people on you.  As in most things, fortune favors the bold.

I'm reporting you to the moderator  your trying to take away all my dreams 

[tekla]

No, I'm trying to tell you that you have to seek and work on your dreams, not sit and wait for fate.  You are seeking a path of love without risk, without the heartbreak, bad decisions and bad choices that most people make along the way to true love.

Corn don't get out and grow itself, and love never comes without work - and even more, I doubt that true love ever happens without a lot of pain first.

[soldierjane]

Yes, a girl.

[postoplesbian]

No, I'm trying to tell you that you have to seek and work on your dreams, not sit and wait for fate.  You are seeking a path of love without risk, without the heartbreak, bad decisions and bad choices that most people make along the way to true love.

Corn don't get out and grow itself, and love never comes without work - and even more, I doubt that true love ever happens without a lot of pain first.

So does that mean i have to let people have their ways with me before i know its true love

[tekla]

No, it means that humans make choices that sometimes don't work out.  You hit a lot of wrong notes learning to play guitar. 

[postoplesbian]

No, it means that humans make choices that sometimes don't work out.  You hit a lot of wrong notes learning to play guitar.

Well your probably right and well i need love to be able to feel the desire for intimacy so that kinda leaves me in a between a rock and a hard place i suppose. So i wait for the spirits above to drop someone out of the sky 

Yea it sucks being alone but the pain of a failed relationship also hurts too and that i remember hurt way more than being alone    well at times it did