So, I wrote awhile ago and I just thought I should give an update because everyone was so nice.
I have decided to stay with my transsexual lover, I found someone who truly loves me and will do whatever she can for me... why would I give that up? No one has ever been so good to me.
I also realized that sex is not that much of a factor for me. I love who I love regardless.
Although we have discussed not having children... I am not ruling it out completely, but I have a lot of time to think about that (I am only 19).
Ever since she came out my girlfriend and I have gotten closer everyday, how can this be such a bad thing?
So I just thought I should say things are going great. Sometimes it isn't as hard as I think its going to be, but I do still have some bad moments when I think I'm not going to make it. I've learned the best thing is to just try to stay positive and be honest because sometimes the outcomes surprise you.
I wish luck to everyone going through this. Just be patient and try to stay positive!
