Hi Fox, I do agree with you. about being born with the affliction of transsexuality then we go through the remission, *the metamorphosis of transitioning*, then get the rest of the malignancy removed *get the necessary plumbing correction done.* Then finally come out of this long dormant period *chrysalis stage* to be the butterfly we were destined to become from the onset of conception. No more no less as fully a female as medical science can make you. You are for every intent and purposes a fully functioning woman to any outside observer,
Unless proven otherwize, like perhaps by Xray? The other two, an autopsy or forensics I would say you would have to without doubt pass as a stiff, like in dead, rigamortis, before these two procedures would be considered. By then, who care, you've already been dispatched to the next dimension anyway. I wanna be a Dragon Jockey in the next life and a part time fairy.
So now, if you find yourself like most other red blooded GG and your preference happens to be a relationship with a male, then be it that is the choice you have made in your new role as a woman. Or, for lack of a better description, if your choice is having another woman for a partner to share your life with, then the correct label, if you must use labels, you are a lesbian. I can't see what it is that is so difficult to understand about this. It is your mind, soul and body for you to chose as what you desire to do with it, not anyone else's
When I moved here to Vancouver no one knows me or Wing Walker as as anything else but as the women we presented as and the women we worked so hard to be. The only people that know are our physician, our shrink, the trans support group we attend, the minister that married us and our lawyer. No one has ever approached us to ask if we were lesbian lovers, so I can only gather that people see us as two close friends who travel together, even to the Dr's office and I am not about to give out any further information unless it is legally required of us to do so. If asked by anyone else then I will decide at that time what information I will give them, for now it's nobody else's business.
QuoteI still plan to offer my help and support to any person that comes to me and ask for my help so long as their desire is genuine and not false. Trans is an aspect of me but IT is not me. I am just Victoria
Exactly, that is what I came back here to do. I am available for anyone who seeks support, a shoulder to cry on, a sounding board, just to talk about the weather, exchange a bit of humor or about the latest style of clothes, or about babies and little children.
Much of this topic one may find on my Blog Cindy's ramblings Blog or the Empath and Empathy's thread.
Cindy
