Downhill or cross country? I'm gonna guess downhill, because a mountain is probably the only place snow is going to show up in Kansas at this time of year (I'm far up north and eagerly awaiting snowfall so I can cross country myself).
I do mostly cross country, and therefore dress in layers 'cuz it gets hot... a heckuva workout, especially up hills. Layers would prolly be OK for downhill, too. Don't wear a cotton shirt right next to your skin 'cuz they tend to just absorb moisture and keep it there; really uncomfortable. Polyester is the way to go; it wicks the moisture away from your skin. Some long underwear is made of polyester rather than cotton... Not that long underwear is particularly sexy, but definitely practical.
Middle layer, I usually just throw on a hoodie. Outer layer is a water resistant jacket (ie, Columbia, Mountain Hard Wear); I take out the fleece or down lining and just put on the outer water-resistant shell. I don't think I'd ever consider wearing my Carhartt for skiing. Yeah, it's warm, but the exterior of most Carhartts is not water-resistant and can get soaked if you wipe out enough. Plus the danged thing would get hot (and couldn't be removed in layers) and is bulky to the point of impairing mobility (probably more of an important consideration for cross country skiing, though).
For pants, I wear loose cargo jeans, which is actually a rather bad idea if you fall down a lot; they'll get soaked. For downhill skiing, a pair of snow pants (unlined, just the water-resistant part) would be good. I avoid them for cross country because I haven't found a pair that don't retain heat & restrict mobility.
Uhm.. yeah, I kind of dress for pure practicality, I guess. But you asked what looks good. I don't know if you are planning on shopping for this or just want to throw something together from what you already have. Just about anything made by Burton is awesome, but expensive. Really, from a distance it's hard to tell whether someone is male or female when they're in skiing gear... about the only thing that tips me off that someone *may* be female is if they're very small (but clearly not a child) or are wearing pastels, something really furry, or a winter jacket that somehow still manages to show off their boobs/shape. Judging from the glasses in your avatar, you may also be interested in a pair of goggles--but again, usually the cool looking ones are expensive. On a limited budget, I'd say your best bet is wear something practical (keeps you warm & dry without being overly bulky) and, for a put-together (not thrown-together) look, coordinate the colors of your outer jacket, pants, hat & gloves.
Sorry if my style advice is lacking... I don't really consider style when I dress to ski because, well, I just like being comfortable and the trees don't care if I'm wearing army green pants, a blue & black jacket, red skis, silver boots, a black hat, and orange gloves... and dang, if I ever wipe out in a snow bank, it'll at least be easy for people to see my multi-colored arse >.<