In a nutshell, she doesn't think I should even consider dating in "my condition"
I have a friend who's helped me through all my gender confusion, helped me come out to my family, hell, even bought me stuff to make a chest binder with - who recently developed in to more than just friends.
He likes me, I like him, he knows exactly what I'm doing and exactly what's going to happen once I go on HRT and get surgery. He doesn't care, he likes me for who I am, not what my body looks like.
My sister doesn't get this at all. She says I'm going to ruin his life. She keeps saying she's supportive and understanding of what's going on with me but that I shouldn't "take him down with me"
Take him down? I'm not planning an armed robbery and roping him in to helping for christ sake. There's nothing about this that's "down" in any way. I'm much happier now. Pretending I don't have gender issues and dating somebody as a girl would be much worse because I'd be ->-bleeped-<-ing miserable and who wants a partner like that?
She's pretty much forbidding me to see him "for his own good" and I don't know what to say to her.
