Ah, but at what point does personal opinion and preference outweigh political correctness?
For example-
The City & County of San Francisco, where I live, has eliminated plastic grocery bags in lieu of their paper counterparts since they are 'greener.' I recycle, take public transit and attempt to live in a small carbon footprint. However, I have a cat who poops in a box in my small apartment. I like to have those plastic bags around in which to scoop his poop every day or so. I work across the bay in Oakland, where plastic bags aren't verboten. Will I occasionally grocery shop near my office instead of near my home to get these dual-purpose bags? I will.
My point is this- I don't want to sleep with someone with a penis. Period. I don't care if that person is someone female or male identified. I don't want one in my bed. If a woman opted out of a relationship with me because of my lack of dick, so be it. I'm not interesting attempting to negotiate my way into someone else's bed.