Soooo that DUDE was a real jerk and I don't know why you spent so much time trying to work on him Claire.
He obviously has a thing for you, and possibly other attractive MtFs, but doesn't really care about the feelings or struggles of the rest of us not so pretty, passing, transsexuals.
As far as I'm concerned you can get some crisco and shove a shotgun up his -bleep-.