Sexual orientation quirk

[Stealthgrrl]

Excellent point but I think I can be submissive and feminine and still stand up for myself. My brain is reverting to its female self so I don't have aggressive or need to be in charge thoughts. Just because I don't like to drive does not mean I won't have input in to where we are going. My view of the world is so very different now and I have gentle thoughts and feelings. Sexually I am completely different. It takes much time for me to get in the mood and my thoughts are for my partners pleasure rather than my own. It feels wonderful to have my partner carress my hairless feminine body and I feel so warm and wonderful when she enters me. I feel complete when she has an orgasm; mine is difficult and not that important to me.

Pam

What a neat post. I like that about your brain reverting to its female self. So true! To borrow a phrase, I feel like my poor brain was testosterone poisoned for years, and now she is free to be herself...myself. 

[Ashley315]

It's a common misconception that HRT can change sexual orientation.  The "changes in orientation" some go through is only because once they become their true selves inside and out, it frees them to explore ideas and thoughts that they use to shy away from.  Simple as that.  If hormones could change orientation, it could be used as a cure for homosexuality.

[fusi]

in response to the original post those thoughts (occasionally) happen to me _now_ and its very confusing (im not on anything yet) - but i only feel female in my head and i do question my orientation anyway - i like gg's, mtf's (pre and post), ftm's (phwoar), and the odd hot guy (but he has to be absolutely smoking :>)

all in all sounds perfectly normal to me (depending on your definition of normal HA!) and im really happy for you and so jealous at the same time that you are happy with yourself!

<3 fusi
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[Patriciaz]

Ladies,
This is a most interesting post. For the first time in my life I feel like the odd one out because I am - internally - a woman and am attracted to men. Would I go down on a man? Of course! And I don't want to get into all the delicious reasons; that would be a private conversation. When you are with somone you care about you do things to make him happy; this is , of course, a mutual sense of love, care, satisfaction, and pleasure.
The thought of being with a man makes me feel both sexually stimulated and emotionally excited. I find men attractive if they are kind, gentle, supportive and intelligent. That is what makes the physical aspect of a relationship function.
I wanted to add this as an, oddly enough, different opinion or point of view.
Patricia.

[fusi]

oh yea, in regards to the going down thing - i do actually fantasise about it quite a lot

[fusi]

oh yea, in regards to the going down thing - i do actually fantasise about it quite a lot

Alright you girls, hush!
I'm A bitch in heat and this nasty talk is doin me in! lol

haha <3

3=> om nom nom nom!

[fusi]

Excellent point but I think I can be submissive and feminine and still stand up for myself. My brain is reverting to its female self so I don't have aggressive or need to be in charge thoughts. Just because I don't like to drive does not mean I won't have input in to where we are going. My view of the world is so very different now and I have gentle thoughts and feelings. Sexually I am completely different. It takes much time for me to get in the mood and my thoughts are for my partners pleasure rather than my own. It feels wonderful to have my partner carress my hairless feminine body and I feel so warm and wonderful when she enters me. I feel complete when she has an orgasm; mine is difficult and not that important to me.

Pam

What a neat post. I like that about your brain reverting to its female self. So true! To borrow a phrase, I feel like my poor brain was testosterone poisoned for years, and now she is free to be herself...myself. 

yep i see T as a poison too and yea it is a nice post - and at your avatar - norty!

[fwagodess]

Ladies,
This is a most interesting post. For the first time in my life I feel like the odd one out because I am - internally - a woman and am attracted to men. Would I go down on a man? Of course! And I don't want to get into all the delicious reasons; that would be a private conversation. When you are with somone you care about you do things to make him happy; this is , of course, a mutual sense of love, care, satisfaction, and pleasure.
The thought of being with a man makes me feel both sexually stimulated and emotionally excited. I find men attractive if they are kind, gentle, supportive and intelligent. That is what makes the physical aspect of a relationship function.
I wanted to add this as an, oddly enough, different opinion or point of view.
Patricia.

Call me naive and picky, but the only type of man I will ever be attracted to is an F2M, since I am biologically heterosexual.

Here's a table of what my relationship would look like

If I was in a relationship with

• F2M--heterosexual (no matter what happens)
• F--lesbian (biologically heterosexual)
• M2F--homoosexual (no matter what happens)
• M--biologically homosexual

I see every angle on this.

So as far as my sexual orientation...

I have been identified as legally heterosexual. I did have a one night stand in 2002 with another biological man, which did not result in a relationship since I had just got married. Since my first relationship with Amanda in 1986, I has been with women, and remains true to this day. However, after my SRS, I will identify as a lesbian (a transsexual woman in a relationship with a biological woman). In my autobiography I state, "I have always been in relationships with women, and I will remain with women. So [bleep] you all."

My F2M views are...
After I watched an episode of "The Maury Povich Show" ON MY BIRTHDAY (January 4) in 2004 or 2005, I've been highly critical of several transmen that caused a feud that has led to a butt-load of controversy. The feud goes back to when the transman was highly critical of me transwoman style for being "bland and boring," but at the time I didn't regret it.

That changed just last year, after watching news reports and seeing images of "The Pregnant Man," (Thomas Beatie) I show a little bit more respect for transmen, even though that I'll admit that I will probably never fall for a transman.

[tekla]

legally heterosexual

WTF is this nonsense?  Did you go to court and have them issue a decree?  Or fill out some form.  And, having one guy is one guy too much to be straight.  Congrads, you're bi, even if you didn't like it.

[fwagodess]

legally heterosexual

WTF is this nonsense?  Did you go to court and have them issue a decree?  Or fill out some form.  And, having one guy is one guy too much to be straight.  Congrads, you're bi, even if you didn't like it.

Legally heterosexual in my terms are biologically heterosexual.

But no, I did not do this through the court system at all.

As my mother said, "That's what I raised you to believe."

[tekla]

Legals standards are very exact, not a matter of personal preference.

[fwagodess]

Legals standards are very exact, not a matter of personal preference.

I knew that already.

[aubrey]

Ladies,
This is a most interesting post. For the first time in my life I feel like the odd one out because I am - internally - a woman and am attracted to men. Would I go down on a man? Of course! And I don't want to get into all the delicious reasons; that would be a private conversation. When you are with somone you care about you do things to make him happy; this is , of course, a mutual sense of love, care, satisfaction, and pleasure.
The thought of being with a man makes me feel both sexually stimulated and emotionally excited. I find men attractive if they are kind, gentle, supportive and intelligent. That is what makes the physical aspect of a relationship function.
I wanted to add this as an, oddly enough, different opinion or point of view.
Patricia.

...exactly hahaha umm...Yeah. I feel a bit like the odd one here too sometimes.