im new and i never talked to any transsexual b4, i would have a few questions

[adri]

so i still live as a girl, well i dont look like an ordinary girl hehe but maybe im kinda scared from the changes, and i live in a small city too

[tekla]

Hi.  And a small city is at least better than a big town, which is whole lot better than a small town.

[adri]

thats true, but i have no idea how ppl would accept it, im kinda scared hahaha

[sneakersjay]

We were all in your shoes at one time or another.

It boils down to this: can you continue to live as a girl or not?  for most of us the answer at some point becomes NO, and the fear of transitioning fades as the discomfort of continuing to live as a female increases.

Everyone's path is a bit different, though there are many similarities.  First step is to find a good gender therapist in your area.  Second would be to ideally find another trans-guy to talk to locally.  That was the biggest source of info, visuals, and support, in my case.

And welcome to Susan's.

Jay

[adri]

thank u but i cant find any1 near me to talk about it, i mean i can talk to some of my friends, they try to understand me but i feel its not good enough, they cant know how i feel u know

[Janet_Girl]

Hi Adri,

Welcome to our little family. Over  1100 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion. Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers.  Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now.  And it is always nice to have another member.

[Janet

[Mister]

Adri-

Where are you from?

[adri]

im from serbia n u?