What's Missing from the Gay Marriage/transgender Dialogue

[Hazumu]

Natural Law.
It is natural law that God makes each of us exactly the way we are. Our eternal essence, who we are fundamentally, is not just our soul. When we find ourselves in heaven we will be the fulfillment of the same mind, same body, same soul (the belief that souls are superior/separate from our body and thus where our essence must reside, is rooted in a heresy from St. Augustine's day, Gnosticism/ Manichaeism).
So, a personal drawn to being transgendered must address that question. Did God truly make them wrong? Or do they have a heavy cross to bear for some reason we can not see? Transgender surgery is not a repair, it is a controlling change. I don't know the answers, but our public dialogue is far from complete without these questions being included.

[Kaweah]

The link seems to be messed up.  Here is the correct link:
http://husbandfatherdeaconman.blogspot.com/2009/01/whats-missing-from-gay.html

He doesn't seem to understand what he is writing about. He says:

So, a personal drawn to being transgendered must address that question. Did God truly make them wrong? Or do they have a heavy cross to bear for some reason we can not see?

Well, obviously God didn't make them wrong, but nature did. And even if someone transitions, the burden of being transsexual remains.

He says he doesn't know the answer to these questions, and that how the burden of being "transgendered" is best shouldered is poorly understood. But he also says that Church teaching is clear. Huh? Why question the issue if you are just going to dismiss it by invoking Church authority?