YES i 'm finally dating again!

[krisalyx]

well i've been chating with a guy online for the last couple of weeks ,and i'm going to meet him sometime either late this month or early next month, it's just gonna be a dinner date and a getting pissed drunk date plus he wants me to show him around i just hope it'll go well in the way i want of course.

[banshee]

 Good Luck

[krisalyx]

now my mom's pissed at me about it, i've told her i'm taking every procaution rubbers & every thing, i mean the 2 tenents of course if it harm none do what you will, & safe and sane, i mean the guy said a dinner date nothing more and i just can't get it through her thick skull about what i'm doing, oh and two things i'm getting a mobile just in case and he said if i don't like what i see we can eat and just walk away i mean that's for the best right?

[krisalyx]

thanks to my bat-->-bleeped-<-e insane mom i'm going to have to cansel the date until later on in the spring, just to shut her up.

[Brianna]

Your moms just worried about you, thats all.

Bri

[Kallisty]

Trust me, moms have that habit, especially when the internet becomes involved - just an overabundance of caution there, which isn't neccessarily a bad thing.

My suggestion - try lunch instead to start with   That is much less of a scary prospect to the parents usually.

[krisalyx]

i know but after i told she brought up matt shepard all over again, i mean it's completly different and all and i understand  but i'm still brassed off about it, frak i'll just try again either in the spring or the summer, but i seem to be the only one who does not have a mobile i mean have you noticed that every one of those sites you have to send a real photo of yourself,but i'd taken every procausion i mean rubbers & all & still she was freaking out i mean gezz i'm not a kid anymore, i mean goddess she raised so much hell when i came out, & then when i admitted i crossdressed, did anyone else have this sort of problem when you started dating or came out.

[krisalyx]

wait but that's what i did it was just going to be a lunch date anyway, and he said when i first met him that if i did not like him we could just eat and go our own way afterwards no strings atached. goddess i guess when we go down to myrtle beach later on in the year i'd have better luck, because their lgbt comunity is bigger then here.

[krisalyx]

damn that's not really what i ment, what i really ment was i hope that when i do go down there, i'll find someone. (sigh) i mean in this part of virginia the lgbt comunity is dead hell deader then a doornail, goddess i really need to find a boyfriend and quick i know this is gonna sound like a stupid question but does anyone have any advice for a bi-crosdresser (and yes i know that sounds like a oxymoran if there ever was one)