well i've been chating with a guy online for the last couple of weeks ,and i'm going to meet him sometime either late this month or early next month, it's just gonna be a dinner date and a getting pissed drunk date plus he wants me to show him around i just hope it'll go well in the way i want of course.

 Good Luck

now my mom's pissed at me about it, i've told her i'm taking every procaution rubbers & every thing, i mean the 2 tenents of course if it harm none do what you will, & safe and sane, i mean the guy said a dinner date nothing more and i just can't get it through her thick skull about what i'm doing, oh and two things i'm getting a mobile just in case and he said if i don't like what i see we can eat and just walk away i mean that's for the best right?

thanks to my bat-->-bleeped-<-e insane mom i'm going to have to cansel the date until later on in the spring, just to shut her up.

Your moms just worried about you, thats all.

Bri

Trust me, moms have that habit, especially when the internet becomes involved - just an overabundance of caution there, which isn't neccessarily a bad thing.

My suggestion - try lunch instead to start with   That is much less of a scary prospect to the parents usually.

i know but after i told she brought up matt shepard all over again, i mean it's completly different and all and i understand  but i'm still brassed off about it, frak i'll just try again either in the spring or the summer, but i seem to be the only one who does not have a mobile i mean have you noticed that every one of those sites you have to send a real photo of yourself,but i'd taken every procausion i mean rubbers & all & still she was freaking out i mean gezz i'm not a kid anymore, i mean goddess she raised so much hell when i came out, & then when i admitted i crossdressed, did anyone else have this sort of problem when you started dating or came out.

wait but that's what i did it was just going to be a lunch date anyway, and he said when i first met him that if i did not like him we could just eat and go our own way afterwards no strings atached. goddess i guess when we go down to myrtle beach later on in the year i'd have better luck, because their lgbt comunity is bigger then here.

damn that's not really what i ment, what i really ment was i hope that when i do go down there, i'll find someone. (sigh) i mean in this part of virginia the lgbt comunity is dead hell deader then a doornail, goddess i really need to find a boyfriend and quick i know this is gonna sound like a stupid question but does anyone have any advice for a bi-crosdresser (and yes i know that sounds like a oxymoran if there ever was one)