MTF's, What is Your Sexual Identity?

[fwagodess]

I might as well say gay, since after my SRS and become a lesbian.

[imaz]

First post!

Me I'm Bi, never really fancied Straight women or Gay guys, no idea why...

Probably prefer women to men 70% to 30% sexually and 100% to 0% any other way wise!

[tinkerbell]

EWWWWWWW!!

I like girls.

Be nice, be nice.  Oh let's not go there please!    You see... I could sit on this thread and give you my honest opinion about what I think regarding...ummm....you know...things  but that would be unbecoming of a lady (or a staff member for that matter)   


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[mtfbuckeye]

I'm pre-everything, but up to this point I've been "pansexual" while favoring genetic and trans women somewhat over trans men and genetic men... I don't know if this will change if/when I transition from male to female..

[Venus]

Hey sorry, (not sure if I am allowed to post here) I didn't take the poll as for I am not a MTF person. 
However I just wanted to comment on the pansexual because apparently I always have been pansexual or queer I just never knew because I never heard those terms until just this past year, for the past 10 years I have gone by 'bi-sexual' but not because I felt I was because someone told me I was and I just never disagreed with them.  I am glad there are more terms now than the original two terms of you are straight or you are a freak.  Love how we are all different and accepting!

[stephanie_eve]

bi, but picky.. and prefers girls for relationships... currently happily taken

[Vexing]

Trysexual.

I'll try anything

[Jeannette]

Hetero gal all the way!

[Genevieve Swann]

Sex is not very important to me. If I feel comfortable with another person well enough to have sex, gender is not an issue.

[Blaire]

before hormones i was attracted to women,however after hormones i find an attraction to men to be stronger. one thing i need to point out is that because of the spiro i no longer have a sex drive or any desire for sex. what i'm lookingfor is itamacy and companionship.

[Chaunte]

Interesting poll, Meghan.

In general, I have very little sex drive - both now and in the "before days."  Probably a result of controlling my emotions as a child.  When it comes out, it tends to come out in a rush.  Very Vulcan, I guess.

As a general statement, I find myself attracted towards women. 

However, I will admit to being attracted towards a gentleman who is ftm.  I was chatting with a few other women of the Rochester Transgender Group (RTG) during Empire Pride's Spring Dinner.  While at the dessert bar, Pat walked over and joined us.  He is also a member of RTG, though work nowadays forces both of us to miss a lot of meetings.  While we were chatting, part of my mind said, "I wouldn't mind waking up next to him."

That was an absolute first that caught me totally off guard.

[Alyssa M.]

before hormones i was attracted to women,however after hormones i find an attraction to men to be stronger. one thing i need to point out is that because of the spiro i no longer have a sex drive or any desire for sex. what i'm lookingfor is itamacy and companionship.

The way you describe your experience is slightly at odds whith how I would describe my own -- that is, I experience something similar enough that I can see where you're coming from, but I would put it in a very different way.

I haven't found the slightest hint of sexual attraction to me; if anything, it has decreased from the already low level it might ever have been at. But as I move out of the masculine sphere, I find I can appreciate the "otherness" of men a little more now that I am myself recognized as "other" than them. I see that as much more a social change than hormonal.

As to sex drive, it's more like sex cruise control. A beautiful and attractive woman is still every bit as beautiful and attractive. The only difference is that seeing one beautiful women doesn't now distract me from everything else to the extent it did before. I was always primarily looking for intimacy and companionship much more than just sex.

[Debra]

I'm straight (mtf) but I am attracted to women. If I go thru transition, I am open to possibly being attracted to men in the future but I can't imagine it right now.

[Inphyy]

Asexual, I don't like males or females. I just don't find sex important; Society and the media put to much pressure on it and I just find it lame. How many times can you do the deed without being bored. It's dumb...Fine make kids and keep the human pop. going but I don't want any part of it. 

[jaczi]

Where is tri-sexual? 

I love humans..  i mean sex is just a small part in a relationship and if you're together with the right person it will be fine. dosnt metter if guy, woman or trans... 

[sd]

Where is tri-sexual? 

I love humans..  i mean sex is just a small part in a relationship and if you're together with the right person it will be fine. dosnt metter if guy, woman or trans...

Look up sapiosexual, omnisexual or pansexual.

[omega1251]

I guess I am a straight man and a straight woman... haha

[KYLYKaHYT]

I'm about 50/50 bisexual... although I think I tend to be more capable of emotionally bonding with female-identified individuals than male-identified ones.

[lisadear]

Lesbian. Now that I have small breasts I love having my partner play with them. It is all about foreplay now. I know what my new buttons are and now I know how to really push hers. Being with a boy would be being with someone who had no idea about what my body is like. You can't explain it you have to feel it.

[gilded]

Bi since 12yrs old, when I found out males can have sex w/ males too. HRT boosted penile sensitivity and vaginal sex became my fav. Later, when the rest of my body caught up, I hungered for long foreplay. lisadear and others, I know what you mean.mmm.... yup, rubbery legs. Women and MTF in HRT knows best.
For love, sex and FRIENDSHIP, I've always been attracted to fem-males and butch-females since I was 12.
I'm only attracted sexually to CDs or TVs w/ thin or small 'clittie'

- gg

"Where's the B in LGBT?" a Bi conference NYC 2009