I'm negative. I will admit, I have done some pretty dumb things that could have gotten me hurt in more ways than one. I've never had unprotected sex without being in a committed relationship, but other stuff that was just really dumb. I see the results of not using protection every single day at my work. I see the tears, the crying, the pain. It's easy to get HIV, don't kid yourselves. I think many people think 'it's not my disease" but it isn't just a gay disease. We need more education and less stigma, we need support and less judgment.