Given a lot of our arguments about gender, sex, identity and the lack or mutability of any and all of the above I think we certainly have a lot of the religious structure in place. Not sure if any of us have yet burnt or stoned or 'converted' anyone else, but in that regard we are far along the pathway to making a religion of ours and other people's lives!

Now what I think you're asking about is something to fill in the spaces? Like a gender-spirit or gender god/dess who animates us.
Nicely done Jessie.

Your post wasn't offensive in the least.
Now all we need to do is decide how srs, ffs, bas, or shunning all three, mastectomies, hysterectomies, or shunning both, shirts or slacks, who we are attracted to or not match with Christian and other religious sacraments. Hey girl, I think you're onto something here!!
Nice post.