But of course hun, wear what you feel comfortable in, I feel comfortable in stereotypical women's clothes, always did, for a good many years when i was in the comfort of my home or visiting another town where no one knew me. I believe I passed quite well, no one paid me to much attention.
But even when I wore men's clothes it was dress pants and dress shirts or sports shirts, and patent leather shoes or Oxford shoes. Even when I was going through the lowest point of my life living on the street I was meticulous about being clean shaved, and wearing clean dress pants and dress shirts, Oxford shoes and of course my brief case, I carried everything in that brief case like a purse.
Unfortunately there is also the fact that some TS have difficulty passing as females and wearing, not overdone but something that is more appropriately female looking goes a long ways of helping them to appear more like the female gender.
For example I was at a voice therapy class with my mate last night and one of the girls was crying and said that the security person called her a sir. She said she was getting it all the time. Well I takes a look at her and she's wearing jeans that looked much like men's jeans when you really don't have that much hips anyway. She was wearing a halter top but didn't have much in the way of boobs. She also wore a sweater over it, a sweater that could have been a mans sweater in appearance. And the voice.... well at least she was in the right place to do something about that. Stereotype shmereotype, if you wish to look like a horse then you better wear a horse suit at least.
Some TS girls may have an the advantage of looking incredibly like the gender they have chosen to be and still look like they are girls even if they were wearing farmers coveralls and knee high gum rubber boots, a straw hat, and chawin the chawin tobaccie and walking like a lumberjack holding a Mcculluck chainsaw over their shoulder and driving a monster truck.
Some of us are not that lucky.