A good question....
The worlds perception of gender variance has changed, that is for sure. There is much more information available to everyone these days both on the internet and other media.
However a lot more still has to be done, I have never seen a headline or a TV programme that says " Transsexual lives normal life, gets married and has a great career".... Hmmm As a community we are still depicted in many TV and News headlines as sad, desperate people, who live outside the normality of society....
The majority of TV programmes are still about MTF TS, Primarilly because in a male dominated society it is still not understood why any man would want to give up this privledge and become Female. What about a show showing a FTM TS, who becomes a top cop, national hero or war hero?? ... also unlikely.
I read a wonderful article in a UK Womans magazine about a TS who said in the interview " I can sit next to anyone on a bus, train or pass people in the street... they would not know my past"... That is the best education we can give the public, because that is what the vast majority of us want, to fit into society and lead a "normal life" as possible.
The medical profession has a major role to play in any acceptance by the public. This is NOT a life choice, this is a condition that can be life threatening. The causes may not be know (the mind is still very much unchartered territory) but the "cure" is, but for a long time GID, Transsexuality has been labelled a Mental disorder and that has to change.
Sex and Gender are different, That we understand, but again we are labelled at birth by what is between our legs and conditioned socially from the first words that are spoken "it's a boy or it's a girl".. We are then put on a learning curve that is difficult for many of us because our brains cannot cope with what we are being told to do.. How can we explain that to parents..."Yeah it's a boy... but with a Female brain???
When we start to grow, we are expected to do certain things, boys are taught to be tough, independent, girls that it is alright to cry, be social with friends etc... A tomboy is told she will grow out of it an effeminate boy invariably suffers parental issues, because boys don't behave like that... I was dragged off to a therapist at 6 because I wanted a nurses uniform.
Hey, I can wear a guys suit, I wear guys jeans and T-shirts, but put a man out in the streets in a skirt, blouse and high heels and it is socially not acceptable to the majority of people....... why? because Society expects men and women to conform to certain norms and anything outside that is seen as a deviation and unnaceptable.. perhaps even dangerous.
It may be that we can never explain to people about who we are, how we feel and what we have to do to put these feelings right. Society may never understand. The most we can ask for is acceptance and aknowledgement that the conditions exist (TS, CD, Intersex) and that people have a right to put this gender confusion right.
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