* moz (IPREMOVED.wa.westnet.com.au) has joined #Chat
<moz> Hi everyone
<moz> I am here to let anyone know as her best that Debbee Stevens is no longer with us, I know she used this site and I miss her soo bad it hurts
<Flan>
<Flan> are you serious?
<moz> I sure am
<Flan> ...
<Flan> ...
<moz> I dont know what else to say except she took her own life in nsw on 7th of feb
<moz> ru there flan
<Flan> yes
<moz> ru ok
<Flan> i don't know what to think
<moz> i know deb did a bit for susans
<moz> i am still in shock
<Flan> yeah
<moz> obviously no hint on ur end either
<Flan> not in the least
<moz> she had threatened with me but never done it
<moz> but when she did it no word at all
<Flan>
<moz> i agree she was a very special person my best friend too
<moz> sec phone
<Christi> omg.. I knew her too..
<moz> ok back
<moz> yep christi it not good news
<Christi> I feel for you both. There was another friend of ours here that I lived with that did the same
<Christi> of course i was blamed for it by an un-named member who use to frequent here but I understand and feel for you both
<moz> i have known deb for 8 yrs i am straight happily married but she was still my best buddy and I knew all she went through
<Tecna> Oh my...
<Christi> yeah I knew for a couple years. I can't say that we spoke often, but she was a very nice lady
<moz> she sure was
<Christi> I think I even have her in my yahoo
<AFK|meghan> wait, the debbee that was an op here?
<Christi> yes iirc
<meghan> oh jesus, does susan know?
<Tecna> moz, is there any way to verify this, like with an obituary from the newspaper, or something?
<moz> i tried to contact susan
<meghan> moz, do you know susan, are you a member?
<AFK|LivingInGrey> O.O
<LivingInGrey> hello meghan
<Christi> Im sure there will be Tecna
<meghan> someone needs to have a cell phone of someone on here and get the news to susan
<moz> no i only know of susan through Debbee
<moz> her father and family put a death notice in the west australian on tuesday 9th of Feb in his sons name
<Christi> wow
<meghan> moz, i am truly, truly sorry for your loss. she came here a lot
<Christi> yes she did
<meghan> if there is anything online that you could link us to, that would be great. i'm sure susan would like to do something
<moz> i was totally annoyed to our darling son it read she has tried all her life to be Debbee and he does this to her in death
* Christi tries to comfort moz as best as she can through the lines
<Christi> moz I was just thinking that..How rude
<Flan> ...
<Flan> that's just wrong
<Christi> it is
<Christi> very
<moz> I agree i am totally annoyed
<moz> can some one please let susan know
<meghan> hold on a sec if you can
<Tecna> Is "Debbee Stevens" the correct spelling?
<moz> yep
<AFK|Susan> Moz do you have a link? by any chance?
* AFK|Susan is now known as Susan
<Tecna> is there another name that would be in public record?
<moz> nope
<Tecna> I'm not finding anything
<moz> she used my computer last time she here a few weeks back but no alas
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[09:04] <Susan> what was the male name?
[09:05] <moz> (NAMEREMOVED)
[09:05] <Susan> yep
[09:05] <moz> am i believed
[09:06] <moz> she was my best friend and i miss her
[09:06] <Susan> Ya could you send me a copy of the obit?
[09:06] <Susan> (ADDRESS REMOVED)
[09:06] <Susan> Avenue not avenue e
[09:06] <moz> so this is an american site no idea
[09:07] <Susan> Any info on the cause?
[09:09] <moz> nope coroner found nothing we need to wait 9 weeks for toxicology results
[09:09] <moz> she was found blue in bed
[09:09] <moz> pills i would say
[09:09] <Susan> kk
[09:10] <moz> i only have obituary by her dad in (NAME REMOVED) name
[09:10] <Susan> Ya if you could email a scan of it or transcribe it I would be grateful
[09:11] <moz> wot ur email address
[09:11] <Susan> Gonna call her friend iddy
[09:11] <Susan>
susan@susans.org[09:11] <moz> she was a great friend
[09:12] <moz> hope this news was not too sad i know she helped you out
[09:12] <Susan> She was a pillar of this community
[09:12] <Susan> Iddy is crying...
[09:13] <moz> I know
[09:13] <moz> mine too
[09:13] <moz> in a different way
[09:13] * Susan hugs Moz
[09:13] <moz> thank you xxxx
[09:13] <Susan> You are welcome here any time as much as you want
[09:14] <moz> thanks even though i am straight
[09:14] <moz> i would love to make new friends
[09:15] <moz> i will be back if that ok
[09:15] <moz> hugz
[09:15] <moz> xxxx
[09:15] <Susan> sec
[09:15] <Susan> sure you are welcome
[09:15] <moz> cool
<Susan> Ok folks looks like Debbee is no longer with us...
<Flan>
* Christi gives a moment of silence
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[09:24] <moz> my best friend was different i knew that from the word go
[09:25] <moz> i will scan and send you her fathers obituary tomorrow
[09:26] <moz> how will i ever replace a best mate like that
[09:34] <moz> I must go to bed it is late here in Western Australia keep in touch Hugz xxxx
[09:34] <Susan> kk
[09:34] * Susan hugs back
[09:36] <moz> xx
[09:37] <moz> thank you
[09:37] <moz> for believing in her
[09:39] <Susan> We will talk later get some sleep
