As FTMs I find a lot of us are too concerned about not being big enough for many things. A lot of us aren't tall enough, have big enough hands, feet, our lower extremities aren't as big as we want them to be... etc...
But for just one moment I want to say why I'm proud to be a smaller guy.
Now, you might consider me one of the bigger FTMs because I'm 5'7", but I'm still considered short where I live. It always used to bother me but now I just don't care that much.
Girls often sigh about how they want a big tall man or whatnot, but preference is just preference and it can be changed. My current gf doesn't like her men being really tall because she is quite small herself. The truth of the matter is, they may say they want a tall man, but it's not necessarily the only thing they want.
I've got small hands, though my fingers are long. I've got small feet, though they appear to still be growing. I'm skinny because my metabolism is still working too fast. No, I don't have a penis and when I'm on hormones it will be small. But I like it that way. That's right. I don't care how big my penis is, I will be proud of whatever little thing I get.
Why? Because it's mine. A dick is only as good as the person who uses it and in my theory, if you can only please someone with a penis alone then you aren't good in bed.
I once found a grain of sand.
There are many like it, but that one is mine.
I'm not telling anyone else how they should feel about their size, but I'm saying how I feel about it. What makes me proud to be a smaller guy than the rest.
If a girl leaves me because of what's in my pants, she isn't the one for me. If a girl isn't interested in me because I'm too short? Sucks to be her. Why would I want someone who only cares about my size? I want someone to be interested in my personality and I bet anything it's my personality that gets the girl, not my looks or how big I am. Physical attraction, yes, does play a roll but I believe it plays a smaller roll than we initially realize.
The truth is, at least in my mind, that the size dysphoria that we get is only harmful to us. If we make it into a big deal, then the people around us will make it a big deal as well. If your girlfriend/boyfriend/whatever is fine with you just the way you are, then it's probably you who is perpetuating that you have a problem because you aren't as big as you'd like to be. They don't have the problem with how big you are, it's you who does. And that doesn't make it any less of a problem for you, but I've heard of guys who lose their relationships because they let it take over their relationship.
And this is why I want to hear why you're proud of being whatever size you are. Tall, short, big, small, whatever it is that you are. Tell me some things that you like about yourself, about your body. The things that you feel that make you unique, even if they really aren't.
