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Started by Starr, March 02, 2009, 10:10:17 AM

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Starr

Hi, I'm Hypatia's girlfriend. :)

I first met her over four years ago, long before she transitioned. We became friends, and I quickly fell in love with her (although we were still just friends). It was a couple of years before she came out to me. I guess I wasn't totally surprised by then. I was surprised to discover that it didn't change my feelings for her. I had never thought of myself as anything other than a typical straight woman--married for 17 years. But in fact, I found myself more in love with her than ever. She was still the same person I'd always known and loved, but it was even better because she was finally being her real self with me.

We were best girlfriends after that and only recently became an official "item." I've never felt this way about anyone before. I've gone from calling myself straight to calling myself a lesbian, but the fact of the matter is that I'm really a Hypatian. ;)
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imaz

That's beautiful, so happy for you both, what a wonderful blessing. :)
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almost,angie

Thats just adorable. A year after I came out to my girlfriend we got married.
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TamTam

Aaaaww!! How cute. :D

Quote from: Starr on March 02, 2009, 10:10:17 AM
She was still the same person I'd always known and loved, but it was even better because she was finally being her real self with me.

I know how that feels. :D
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ftmshubbie

Quote from: Starr on March 02, 2009, 10:10:17 AM
Hi, I'm Hypatia's girlfriend. :)

I first met her over four years ago, long before she transitioned. We became friends, and I quickly fell in love with her (although we were still just friends). It was a couple of years before she came out to me. I guess I wasn't totally surprised by then. I was surprised to discover that it didn't change my feelings for her. I had never thought of myself as anything other than a typical straight woman--married for 17 years. But in fact, I found myself more in love with her than ever. She was still the same person I'd always known and loved, but it was even better because she was finally being her real self with me.

We were best girlfriends after that and only recently became an official "item." I've never felt this way about anyone before. I've gone from calling myself straight to calling myself a lesbian, but the fact of the matter is that I'm really a Hypatian. ;)

Good to meet you, Starr! Sometimes I think we have the very best kinds of spouses!

:-}

Dan
aka ftmshubbie
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Janet_Girl

Hi Star,   :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 1800 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion. Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers.  Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now.  And it is always nice to have another SO.   :icon_hug:

Hypatia's lucky to have you and you, her.
Janet

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Windrider

Hi, Starr! Glad to have you aboard. :) My spouse is in the process of transitioning so we're still taking it one day at a time. It'll be nice to have some more people to talk with (it was getting too quiet over here ;p )

WR
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Hypatia

You're the sweetest, most wonderful and amazing lover a woman could ever wish for, darling. I love you so much.  :icon_bunch:
Here's what I find about compromise--
don't do it if it hurts inside,
'cause either way you're screwed,
eventually you'll find
you may as well feel good;
you may as well have some pride

--Indigo Girls
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Starr

Quote from: Hypatia on March 02, 2009, 11:33:54 PM
You're the sweetest, most wonderful and amazing lover a woman could ever wish for, darling. I love you so much. 

I love you, babygirl.  :-*


Thanks to everyone else for the welcomes. It's always good to find like-minded friends. :)
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