Hmmm Lots to ponder! Why do we used definitions? If not we'd have no frame of reference. Does one title cover all? No, that is why though we started with male and female we have added cross dresser, transgendered, transsexual, preop-postop, Trans man, Trans woman, She male and (my own) Male Lesbian. Someday I hope to be able to drop the male portion. But however we define ourselves and others we can be proud of who and what we are. Or we can let the rest of the world use those terms as derogatory insults. I am old enough to remember that if you wore womens clothes you were a drag queen and turned tricks in back alleys in the red light district. Today yes we still have prostitutes that dress in drag. But I have seen lots of good entertainers that are above moral reproach gay or straight. I say define yourself and be proud of who you are (now) and where you came from. As the current saying is "You go girl" or "You go guy" if your a trans man.