I think sie has hijacked the word androgyne and excluded us. In that case I don't care how sie pronounces it (though around here gynecology is pronounced with a hard g, and doesn't refer to something needing removal).
Wondering what box refers to me, I stumbled upon the word:
"gynandromorph |gīˈnandrəˌmôrf; jinˈan-|
noun Zoology & Medicine
an abnormal individual, esp. an insect, having some male and some female characteristics."
So I thought, maybe by extension a gynandroid might refer to one whose ID is neither m nor f, though the body or presentation might not be perfectly centered. And gynandroid could be pronounced with hard or soft g.
We seem to be a functioning, vibrant group (pronounced with hard g, not needing to be removed). Weegerri seems to want to define us in a way that divides us into those exactly like hir, and those who don't or shouldn't exist.
As for fault or feature, my sense of what you have said, Pica, is not that androgyny is a fault, but that it can cause problems in social interaction.
Other that the points above, I may agree with the video,
S