QuoteSuicide often includes many selfish components.
Of course it does Beth, I never said it didn't.
I did say I felt, personally, that it was more selfish to wish someone to be in pain the rest of their life and not suicide just so you can have them around, than to non-judgementally accept their decision to end things on their own terms.
Be that as it may, LIFE often includes
many selfish decisions, as well as many decisions that are selfless.
There are answers to your questions, at least, how I have answered them. They are not perfect, but, I have factored them in. If you can formulate those questions then you can formulate the answers to those questions as well. Put yourself in the mindframe of who you know. Generally speaking, what are their beliefs on the subject, how will they react? Then try to find the best path that will cause the least amount of damage.
The same can be said for transitioning Beth. You know what you need to do, you explain it to all of your friends and family. You discuss it with them and you prepare them for it. You let them know that this wasn't their fault at all and there is nothing they could have done, and nothing they can do. This is your life, and therefore, your decision. It should come as no suprise to anyone that knows you. Then you do it in such a manner as to impact as few people as possible.
Just like everything in life Beth, be courteous about it.
Like I've said before, suicide done on a whim is very rarely an intelligent move. There are far too many things that you need to think about and consider.
Jessica