In a lot of ways, it's great living in the San Francisco Bay Area. There's a lot out here for CDs and TGs. But, it seems to be best if one is in one of the larger cities.
I'm having a tough time finding anything on the Peninsula. If my 'net searching is to be believed, all CD/TG stuff on the Peninsula is in San Francsico or in San Jose and there's nothing in between. This makes me think that a) that's true and there's didly squat in San Mateo County or b) there is stuff here but it's "underground," for lack of a better word.
Well, that's not exactly true. There do seem to be things for youth, but it's been 20 years since I fit that category.
The upside is that neither SF or SJ is all that far away, and public transit can easily get me to both cities. I just prefer to live closer to home, so to speak.