Years ago I asked a female friend to describe to me what it was like to have
breasts and she replied, "What is it like to have a penis?" While you are standing
amongst the trees, it is difficult to see the forest. While you are under the influence
of testosterone it is impossible to experience the entire effect of femininity.
As far as what I think of your "plan of action", only YOU can decide for yourself what
the "true" path is for you. If you are starting on this journey of self discovery to gain the
approval of those you come into contact with, you are in for a major anti-climax.
I wish for you to find the peace which you deserve.