Sounds a bit odd, given your friend is TG. A security thing? Like, he didn't read me but he did you?
If I was you forget it. She's a friend and running on problems.
I think this is related. Employed a new guy in the as far as I knew was straight , very cute. In the loo stalls conversation, "I'll wear a cute low blouse tomorrow, you see how often he checks me." Another next stall; "I'm going to wear boots and a skirt check me."
I reckon it's just the hunting spirit.
Me! I kept quite and hid and I think he is cute!!.
Ahmm turn up to work in a French Maid Outfit?
Cindy