I started my vocal training in middle school, and my voice sounded so fake at first and I'd get made fun of. But your voice is such an important part of your presentation, in my opinion, and it can be a saving grace when someone is confused as to what gender you are. Whichever route you choose to begin your vocal training, whether it's videos, recordings, or just fiddling with it until you get it (what I did lol), please please please practice practice practice. Even if you sound silly in the beginning. It's important. You won't need surgery if you can teach your voice box to switch over to the female range, and it is indeed possible! Good luck! 🙂