my accepting gal pal

[Asianelle]

I had the most wonderful experience of my new life.  My girlfriend and i were sharing what fanticys and dreams we would have and wich ones drew the most curiostity.  well i spoke about the whole cd/tv thing and she was okay with it then.  so then the following night just before bed, i took my favortate outfit and put it on for her.  turned out all the lights, and when she realizes I had femme attire on and was a little funny about it at first.  Then as a few minutes went by she was okay with it and said that we will start it off in the bedrooom, and work it out from there.  If i wanna live femme, it would be okay to do that when she is not  around.  She wouldn't wanna come from work one day and see me running around in her cloths, but if i had enough of my own outfits, thenofter our day was done, then i could do as i wished.  so atleast at night i can dress my best.  I love her and hopefully it (the other me) becomes a larger part of both of our lives.

[Louise]

You definitely need to get your own clothes.  Sharing your girlfriend's wardrobe without her explicit permission is a big no no.  If you get your own things you could generously offer to share.   

Before I came out to my wife many years ago I would try on some of her things when no one was around.  "Try" is the operative word.  I wear a size 16 and my wife wears a 4 petite.  It was much better when I started to get my own feminine attire.  About the only things that my wife and I share in our wardrobes is the occasional piece of jewelry and a few scarves.