I had the most wonderful experience of my new life. My girlfriend and i were sharing what fanticys and dreams we would have and wich ones drew the most curiostity. well i spoke about the whole cd/tv thing and she was okay with it then. so then the following night just before bed, i took my favortate outfit and put it on for her. turned out all the lights, and when she realizes I had femme attire on and was a little funny about it at first. Then as a few minutes went by she was okay with it and said that we will start it off in the bedrooom, and work it out from there. If i wanna live femme, it would be okay to do that when she is not around. She wouldn't wanna come from work one day and see me running around in her cloths, but if i had enough of my own outfits, thenofter our day was done, then i could do as i wished. so atleast at night i can dress my best. I love her and hopefully it (the other me) becomes a larger part of both of our lives.