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I Came Out! My Mum's Reply...

Started by Ryan, September 26, 2009, 10:34:59 AM

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Ryan

Just thought I'd share this with you all...
I came out to my Mum yesterday. Here's her reply.
I have the most awesome Mum ever.

"Ryan,
Thankyou for your honesty, and no I'm not completely shocked because I have guessed, well, felt your struggle over the past year or two, and I have worried that you haven't been able to confide in me until now.
I love you completely and un-reservedly for the person that you are, and not whether you fit in socially as male or female. You are such a wonderful character with a fantastic sense of humour and you have always made me very proud.
I think that you should choose your own middle name - something that you have always wanted as your name? I'm honoured that you have chosen Ryan (yes, I would have called you that if you had been born a boy). I'm so pleased that you are starting to feel happier with yourself. I have only ever wanted you to be happy.
Forgive me if it takes me a while to get used to your new name - you know I'm bound to forget!!! LOL!
I LOVE YOU TOO (always)
Mum xxx"
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Nathan.

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Al James

nice one. couldn't wish for a better response. hail to understanding mums everywhere
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Alyx.

Wow, what?

You have the greatest mom of all time!
If you do not agree to my demands... TOO LATE
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Renate

That's great!

You can always tell in the first few words what kind of a response you got.

Mine always started, "Dear Renate..."
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Jay



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Janet_Girl

That is so cool of your Mom.  She must be a really great lady.  And do cut her some slack with the name and pronouns.  It will take a bit for her to get use to you being her son.


Janet
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Dana Lane

That almost made me cry. Congratulations to you!!!!
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Former TS Separatist who feels deep regret
http://www.transadvocate.com/category/dana-taylor
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Myself

Jealous :D

My cousins are better than my actual mom it seems.
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Silver

That's great! You do have a great mom.

SilverFang
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Lachlann

Don't be scared to fly alone, find a path that is your own
Love will open every door it's in your hands, the world is yours
Don't hold back and always know, all the answers will unfold
What are you waiting for, spread your wings and soar
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Kaitlyn

That's got to be the best reply ever!  You must be so excited!
"The mind is not a vessel to be filled but a fire to be kindled."
— Plutarch
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Matthew J. F

that was awesome! congratulations! Your mom is awesome! I just wish that mine was still alive :(
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Miniar




"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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GnomeKid

I solemnly swear I am up to no good.

"Oh what a cute little girl, or boy if you grow up and feel thats whats inside you" - Liz Lemon

Happy to be queer!    ;)
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Jamie

Congratulations!
She sounds really cool...
She loves you a lot, you can see that from a letter.  :)
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lizbeth

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Flameboy

Great news, Gizzy - I'm really pleased for you mate! ;D
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Ender

Glad your mom took it well, she wrote a really great response.
"Be it life or death, we crave only reality"  -Thoreau
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perfectisolation

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