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Started by Myself, October 01, 2009, 12:58:22 PM

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Myself

I been measured at a shop but feeling it's incorrect,
I been looking into videos, but still thinking it's wrong!

How do I know if a cup is too big or band is too small?

I generally feel comfortable with it and by looking on some videos online explaining how to measure, it seems to look alright (although I didn't find straight answer about the two questions above) according to how it should look in the videos, but something is still not right.

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Northern Jane

If you fill the cup without overflowing and if it is comfortable, that's a good fit.
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GinaDouglas

Bras and jeans are very hard to fit, because transwomen don't have the same ratios of one body part to another that genetic women have.  A bra is never going to fit perfectly.
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Alyssa M.

Quote from: Myself on October 01, 2009, 12:58:22 PMI generally feel comfortable with it and ... it seems to look alright

It looks like you answered your own question. ;)
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Myself

Quote from: GinaDouglas on October 01, 2009, 02:13:18 PM
Bras and jeans are very hard to fit, because transwomen don't have the same ratios of one body part to another that genetic women have.  A bra is never going to fit perfectly.

That's nonsense, it's only said about width usually and many are not wide at all.
There are women in all shapes in size, those who need to add +5 inch for bra measure, those who don't, those who have boxy straight rib cage.

The skeleton is pretty much the same.

No, it is not about comfort, probably more like not understanding how it is supposed to fit or look properly, what are advises to know if cup sizes are too big?
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Chrissty

Quote from: Myself on October 01, 2009, 02:17:53 PM
That's nonsense, it's only said about width usually and many are not wide at all....


If you don't want advice then why ask the questions honey? :-\

I think if you read Gina's response more carefully she says nothing about rib cages or skeletons..

Have you even considered that the position and shape of the breast development (particularly in the early stages) and the shape of the shoulders from T might just play a factor? ::)

..but they do also say that as much as 60% of gg's are walking around with bra's that are a bad fit.... ;)

Chrissty
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Myself

Quote from: Chrissty on October 01, 2009, 02:39:10 PM
If you don't want advice then why ask the questions honey? :-\

I think if you read Gina's response more carefully she says nothing about rib cages or skeletons..

Have you even considered that the position and shape of the breast development (particularly in the early stages) and the shape of the shoulders from T might just play a factor? ::)

..but they do also say that as much as 60% of gg's are walking around with bra's that are a bad fit.... ;)

Chrissty

Hey, sorry it's not that I don't want advice, it's just I feel that was completely nonsense.

Shoulders don't grow because of T, muscles do, T pretty much, as a known fact, only seems to affect the skull, growth of the jaw, chin.
Although some others says that some of it is also related to bone closure, or a combination.

Besides, there are many women with big shoulders which go straight and up rather than slopping, so it's not like bras are designed just for narrow shoulders.

But it's not even the case anyways, my shoulders seems to be pretty average or narrow.


Sorry, I am more looking into tips of recognizing if a bra cup is too big, didn't mean to be rude.
I seem to automatically get a bit upset when people suggest it mighr be "just because" even when it's pretty much known that those differences don't really exist and overlap a lot if they do, therefore they are just categorized into groups of extremes and the overlaps and norms seems to be forgotten.
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Nero

a bra cup is too big if it wrinkles. a cup is too small if the breasts are spilling over it. the center band should lie flat between the breasts. i would assume that women of transsexual history would have issues in that their band size is larger than normally accompanies their cup size. so you might run into problems where the band fits but the cups are too big. if the cup is wrinkled while you're in it, it's too big.
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Myself

Well it seems to fit properly then, unless the padding of push up bras are anti wrinkling material.

The band size isn't big at all, 32 actually, I could find pretty much anything from B to DD but not an A or an AA. unless looking in teenage shops (that's too small anyways).

One thing I was also pretty much wondering is why it seems so small if the cup size is B or C, but it might be it's a small C and I read somewhere D is pretty much the normal for 32 and it might be it, D is the equal of 36B as 32C, then again, I am not sure if that's it or why it seems small even if the bra seems to fit properly..
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pheonix

Quote from: Myself on October 01, 2009, 03:22:57 PM
Well it seems to fit properly then, unless the padding of push up bras are anti wrinkling material.

The band size isn't big at all, 32 actually, I could find pretty much anything from B to DD but not an A or an AA. unless looking in teenage shops (that's too small anyways).

One thing I was also pretty much wondering is why it seems so small if the cup size is B or C, but it might be it's a small C and I read somewhere D is pretty much the normal for 32 and it might be it, D is the equal of 36B as 32C, then again, I am not sure if that's it or why it seems small even if the bra seems to fit properly..

I'm a little confused by your posts, but I'll try to answer anyway...

If a band size is too small, you will see rolls of flesh over the sides of it.  If your bandsize is too large, you'll have a bra that floats which you constantly need to adjust, pulling it back down in place.  A good test for too large a bandsize is to raise your arms over your head... if the bra doesn't stay in place, go down a bandsize.

On the cup side of things, it all comes down to how you fill the cups... if the cups wrinkle or pucker, they are too big.  If you are spilling out of them (for example that your nipple is not covered) it's time to size up the cup.  Another wrong cup size indicator can be the cleavage... if ur looking like a pron star, it's likely too small.   ;D

Another trick for a better bra fit is to tweak with band and cup size, similar to what you indicated.   For example, a 32D, 34C, and 36B are all roughly the same (or 32C, 34B, 36A, etc.).  When I try a new style of bra I typically grab my equivalent in 34 and 36s and try them both.  In most cases the 34 is right, but occasionally a 36 will fit me better.



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Chrissty

Quote from: Myself on October 01, 2009, 03:22:57 PM
Well it seems to fit properly then, unless the padding of push up bras are anti wrinkling material.

The band size isn't big at all, 32 actually, I could find pretty much anything from B to DD but not an A or an AA. unless looking in teenage shops (that's too small anyways).

One thing I was also pretty much wondering is why it seems so small if the cup size is B or C, but it might be it's a small C and I read somewhere D is pretty much the normal for 32 and it might be it, D is the equal of 36B as 32C, then again, I am not sure if that's it or why it seems small even if the bra seems to fit properly..

I'm sorry, you didn't originally say you had mature 32D breasts

...so I mistakenly was trying to give advice on MtF developing breasts.

That is an excellent result on HRT alone, you must be very pleased..

I apologise. :icon_bunch:

Chrissty
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Alyssa M.

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Well, I still stand by the principle that bras are clothing, not math quizzes. Based on that, if they are comfortable and look good, then that's all that matters.

My issue is that if I go above a 36, the band is too loose, but at 36, the shoulders are a bit tight -- I have to let the straps out all the way. I have fairly broad shoulders. That's not muscle either, just bone.

My skeleton, other than my skull, is different than most women in several ways that are obvious to me and that make women's clothes harder to fit: longer torso compared to legs, thicker finger bones (again, not muscle or fat -- try fitting your hands into a can of Pringles and you'll see what I mean -- nearly all women can do that), broader shoulders, smaller "carry angle" at the elbows, broader shoulders and hips compared to the hips, less angle in upper leg bones, bigger feet. That's all skeletal. Oh yeah -- I'm taller that 99% of women from my background too. That's all skeletal.

So having T vs. E during adolescence makes a lot more difference than just in the face, body hair, and muscular development. It definitely changes skeletal structure as well. If you have only a 32 band size, you are lucky.
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Steffi

QuoteSo having T vs. E during adolescence makes a lot more difference than just in the face, body hair, and muscular development. It definitely changes skeletal structure as well. If you have only a 32 band size, you are lucky.
Exactly. .... and the tilt of the pelvis is different too
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FairyGirl

Shape of the pelvis is different too- gg's are designed to squeeze out babies.

But for bra size, if the cup is smashing your breasts down and feels tight and uncomfortable, even if you're not spilling out of it, chances are you need to go up a size. I started with teen bras from Maidenform online which didn't come in different cup sizes, just band sizes and they were a perfect fit, but after a while they got to be too restricting and I had to graduate to an actual full A cup lol. It's a nice feeling to outgrow your bra in one way, but after a while it's aggravating as hell. And cup sizes vary greatly between manufacturers, so as Alyssa said the best indicator is how well it looks and fits when you try it on.
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V M

Yes, the cup sizing does vary by the maker. This throws another variable into the equation which can be rather frustrating.

Luckily there are some fairies (women) at my apt.s that seem rather interested in helping me be more lady like. There's the fashion fairies, make up fairies and most adamant, the bra fairy who leaves a variety of bras in thrift store bags at my door. At least I know she's not spending too much and Ive learned allot about different bras  :laugh:
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Myself

Quote from: Chrissty on October 01, 2009, 04:57:18 PM
I'm sorry, you didn't originally say you had mature 32D breasts

...so I mistakenly was trying to give advice on MtF developing breasts.

That is an excellent result on HRT alone, you must be very pleased..

I apologise. :icon_bunch:

Chrissty

Uhh.. I am probably responding some sarcasm, no, 32B or C for now, still developing.

Quote from: Alyssa M. on October 01, 2009, 06:11:17 PM
So having T vs. E during adolescence makes a lot more difference than just in the face, body hair, and muscular development. It definitely changes skeletal structure as well.

I am still convinced it's not T which makes you taller bigger and all that, it is Estrogen which stops growth sooner. The hips are changed with estrogen, yes.
There are actual known publications saying that starting early boy puberty or having high testosterone is linked with narrow shoulders etc, Testosterone turns not estrogen if has too much, which benefits the closure of the growth plate, but it's not that testosterone makes boys grow, it's that it simply girls stop growing due to E sooner.
Thanks for your tips too :)


Sorry I probably turned this thread into some science war against "Is it T or just lack of estrogen which damages us?" I didn't mean to offend anyone, it's my instinct to try and correct something which I know is wrong, didn't mean it in any way offensive.
(Of course what I know could be wrong too!)

Thanks for all the comments and tips otherwise :)
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Steffi

Adolescent males have the same E levels as females * - the presence of T in the boys overrides the E completely.
Anything beyond that is hair splitting on the finer points about the mechanism of action - bottom line is if you've got T you're gonna get a male skeleton!

*until much later in puberty, by which time females development is almost complete anyway. Source
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Myself

Quote from: Steffi on October 02, 2009, 05:31:22 PM
Adolescent males have the same E levels as females * - the presence of T in the boys overrides the E completely.

*until much later in puberty, by which time females development is almost complete anyway. Source

Yes, if testosterone is higher it will pretty much cancels estrogen's effects such as breast tissue and hips development, yet it doesn't make the skeleton grow.. It's lack of higher estrogen levels which brings pretty much the same result (person growing taller etc) but for a different reason.

What I am trying to say is women are shorter etc not because of lack of testosterone, but because extra estrogen (at about year 12 nowdays estrogen levels start getting higher).

In boys, puberty usually start about 2-3 years later than in girls, when testosterone reaches high level it is converted to estrogen by enzyme aromatase which then slowly causes sealing of the growth plates.

Castrated boys actually grow taller than most boys, they don't have testosterone, they have lack of estrogen.
No testosterone, not high enough levels of testosterone to get to aromatase trigger levels or for aromatase to produce normal levels of estrogen, therefore, growth the natural low amount of estrogen finally seals the plates.

In gigantism Estrogen is given to seal the growth plates and stop growth.

That's why people with higher testosterone and earlier in puberty might be shorter, have narrow shoulders etc, that's because their high testosterone values are arotomized into estrogen which in place seals the growth plates.

There are cases of gigantism where the person is estrogen resistant

QuoteA very rare but more extreme version of "eunuchoid" tallness occurs when a mutation of the estrogen receptor reduces the response of the bones to estradiol. Estradiol is a byproduct of testosterone in both males and females, and is the most potent accelerator of bone maturation and closure known. If a person fails to respond to estrogen, growth can continue until late-20s or longer, and the affected person can reach 8 feet or more in height. Estrogen resistance is the only other endocrine condition that can rival growth hormone excess in producing gigantism

Many women who have late puberty or anything else, grow tall as men, their structure isn't that different.

Women gets a burst of estrogen at average 12-14 years old, which hastens bone maturation.

Male start puberty at average 14-16 of age, Ok, but even though they started puberty, where's the estrogen? measures of estrogen in men are like 2.5-50 normal reading. in women it can get up to over 500.

Which is why women grow less on average.

We already had a thread about hands size, is it not weird, if guys are so huge and full of testosterone, that hands size averages are 174mm and 189mm? give the person few more years to grow, of course their hands will grow, put the testosterone to 0 and estrogen to 0, be sure the hands will be bigger than normal males and females, the person will be taller, broader shoulders and all.

So I still disagree with you, if you have T, you get hair, ugh voice, muscles and stuff.
If you don't have E you get taller and grow more. YET, not any different than what any woman can potentially grow to, even WITHOUT T, just drop some of the estrogen, be resistant to it, whatever, leave the growth plate alone, you get the same.

It is a well established fact that the only really reliable way of identifying skeleton gender is the hips which grow with estrogen.
Which btw, some researches say it might not be estrogen that grows it but lack of testosterone (as testosterone interrupts it)  and minimal estrogen. but let's leave it that way.

But the real bottom line is, it doesn't matter why people grew over the female average, what matters is they did.
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FairyGirl

Quote from: Myself on October 02, 2009, 11:59:12 PMif you have T, you get hair, ugh voice, muscles and stuff.

I found this interesting- it's from last month's "Scientific American" magazine about origins. The following excerpt is from the piece on "bone" by Christine Soares:

Quote from: Scientific AmericanServing as a massive and highly responsive storage depot for critical minerals, particularly calcium, is a role that ... is now one of the most important functions of human bone. Without calcium, the heart cannot beat and brain cells cannot fire, so far from being inert, bone is in constant flux between growth and self-demolition to meet the body's needs and maintain its own structure. Cells called osteoclasts ("bone breakers") destroy old or dead bone tissue, and osteoblasts ("bone growers") give rise to new bone cells. Working together, these cells replace about 10% of the skeleton every year. In the shorter term, if blood calcium levels are too low, osteoclasts destroy bone to release the mineral. Conversely, if exercise produces larger muscles, ostepblasts get to work building new bone to withstand their pull.

Coupled with what has already been said about bone growth, hormones, and puberty, perhaps the extra muscles also have something to do with the heightened development of bone during that time. I had a height growth spurt at 17 when I gained an additional 3+ inches from the height I had been previously. I think that's common in boys, and that was several years after puberty.

Wasn't sure if this would be better in the thread on hrt and height rather than this one on bra questions, but it seemed to fit into the whole skeleton discussion that this one evolved into.
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Myself

That refers to bone density and re-build, kind of maintenance, not actual growth O_o
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